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Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.comBlogger847125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-39146433121963449072017-11-01T06:30:00.000-07:002017-12-04T06:03:42.227-08:00The Final RoundFriends and others:<br />
I have not posted anything in quite a while. I have been working 80-90 hours a week and have not had time. For anyone still reading this blog, or for anyone who has come across it by accident, I leave here deposited a story I recently wrote.<br />
It is a story about golf, friendship, life and death, and redemption. I hope you enjoy it.<br />
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u><span style="line-height: 115%;">The Final Round<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Introduction<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></i></b><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In the beginning
there was golf, because in the end no human activity so encompasses the meaning
of life; the victories and the defeats, the spectacle and the mundane, the
celebration and the mourning. It is all there in the game of golf.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>No other activity is so intoxicating and
at the same time so infuriatingly sobering. No drug can get one as high as
sinking a fifty foot putt, hitting a 250 yard drive that lands softly in the
middle of the fairway, or lofting a chip shot from twenty yards off the green
and the ball rolls to the hole and drops in the cup.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The spectacle of golf is not to be
experienced in the final score, but in every shot which each serve as a
self-contained drama strung all together to form a single unparalleled event.
Never before and never again will there be a human experience that is so
intrinsically good and evil; so unfair and at the same time so ultimately
meritocratic.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There is nothing closer to heaven on earth
than a seventy five degree day with clear blue skies, a slight breeze, and 18 lush
fairways laid out before the golfer. Golf, as in life, is best when taken in
the present. The last shot, good or bad, is gone. The next shot can only be
played after the current one in your stance. So all we ever have is the shot
before us right now. It is not then how one plays the round in total, but
rather how one plays each shot individually that really matters.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>During his trial for teaching the youth of
his day to think outside the conventional box (at the end of which he was
executed), Socrates stated that the unexamined life is not worth living. The
vehicle employed by Raymond Taylor for such an examination was the game of
golf. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For three friends named Raymond Taylor,
Frank Godles, and John Lafferty golf was the golden thread that weaved together
the disparate fabrics of their decade’s long friendship. From the early days of
their youth, through the duration of their friendship on this earth, golf would
be the one constant in the ever-changing landscape of life.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;">Chapter 1<o:p></o:p></span></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A slight breeze sings a gentle song that
can only be interpreted by the dancing leaves on their branches. As he looks longingly
into the eternal blue sky he feels the warmth of the sun on his face, and it
travels through his entire body like a glass of fine brandy. He thinks to
himself, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“This is what heaven must
be like.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Hey Ray! <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank and I are already on the green, just
waiting for you to chip on, your majesty.” John Lafferty’s terse request shocks
Ray Taylor back to reality. Reality on this day, like so many others with his
two best friends, is golf. And they are standing on the green, leaning against
their putters and waiting for their rather pensive friend to chip onto the putting
surface.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As Ray takes a practice swing next to his
ball, Frank Godles chimes in with his rejoinder to John’s admonition of Ray,
“He is probably day-dreaming about some hot chick.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“No,” Ray shoots back as he takes a few
more practice swings, “I was just thinking how ironic it is that you’re a
lawyer and your name is God-Less,” emphasizing each syllable. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“It’s not God-less you boob,” Frank shoots
back, defending the honor of his family name as well as his chosen profession,
“it is God-ills, spelled G-O-D-L-E-S.” enunciating each letter like a drummer pounding
out a slow and deliberate cadence.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah, whatever you say God-Less.” Ray
responds in sarcastic resignation as his club head swoops down and strikes his
ball, sending it lofting into the air. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It
lands on the green twenty feet from the hole, rolls up to the edge of the cup,
and drops in.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Just as his ball hits the bottom of cup
and makes that hollow thunk every golfer loves to hear, a brilliant white light
pierces Ray Taylor’s eyes, forcing them shut. As Ray Taylor struggles to open
his tightly squinted eyes, with tears rolling down his cheeks, he begins to see
the outline of a woman by a window. Could she be the sadist who has so brutally
and mercilessly brought his tortured soul back to the cold hard reality that
has become his existence?<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He slowly begins to flesh out the tableau
of reality in his room. The sunlight streams through the spaces in her soft red
hair, which she has pulled loosely to the back of her head and secured with a
big tortoise-colored hair clip. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“God dammit Elizabeth! Much of my
remaining days on this earth must be spent in bed; must I spend them blind as
well?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Elizabeth to whom Ray Taylor directs
his rather scolding words is Elizabeth Simpson, his hospice care provider. She
is an Irish woman in her fifties whose family immigrated to the United States
when she was a child in her single digits. Her father became deathly ill a few
years after their arrival. Elizabeth’s mother was paralyzed by the enormity of
it all, so the burden of caring for the dying man was placed on the shoulders
of the young Simpson girl. It is probably why she chose the career she did;
shepherding the dying to whatever comes next after this life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And it is what has led her to be in the
bedroom of Ray Taylor, graciously accepting his good natured abuse.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As she turns and walks towards his bed
Elizabeth answers her rather cranky patient in her soothing Irish brogue, “Now,
now, Raymond, don’t you know that sunlight is a gift from God? It is His way of
waking us up to one more day on this lovely earth.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“A gift!” Ray answers incredulously as he
motions with his hand to the tube in his arm through which he receives
medication and nourishment, “I’m not so sure I wish to keep <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">this</i> gift. Besides,” he pontificates
further, “I am not so sure I believe in God anymore.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth scolds him as she fluffs the
pillows behind his head, “My granny use to say, ‘God whispers to us in our
pleasures, He talks to us in the mundane, and He screams at us in our pain;” then
she quickly adds, “shame on you, God has been screaming and you still do not
hear.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray looks ruminatively at this woman who
chooses to live her life in the constant shadow of death. “Well,” he says while
motioning to the corner of the room where his dusty and be-cobwebbed set of
Ping golf clubs has set for over a year, “I just wished I would have known that
the last time I used those was going to be the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">last</i> time I used them.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His plucky healthcare worker sits on the
edge of his bed and gently places her open hand on the side of his face, “Perceptions
are not always reality.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Before Ray can question her rather odd
statement she is heading out of the room to answer the door. The doorbell has
summoned her, and she is hoping it is the summons she has been expecting on
this day when her charge has been more down than usual.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray is left alone to wonder if his
well-meaning healthcare worker has gone crazy, or he has, or…he drifts off to
sleep before he can finish his thought.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><u><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;">Chapter 2<o:p></o:p></span></u></b></span></div>
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Up To the Tee Box<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth opens the door, “Well aren’t
you two a sight for sore eyes?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The sight for sore eyes to which she
refers is in the form of Frank Godles and John Lafferty. Both of whom are
standing at the door, John slightly behind and to the left of Frank. Both are
festooned in golf attire, Frank is wearing a visor and John is wearing a straw
hat.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“What’s shakin’ you sexy lass?” John blatantly
flirts with Elizabeth. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She quickly quips back mockingly, “Why Dr.
Lafferty, aren’t you the smooth operator? I believe I’m going to swoon.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank interjects, paying no attention to
the casual interplay between the woman and his friend, “How’s our boy today?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth answers, “He sure could use some
friends; he is a little down.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank quickly responds, “A little down?
Considering he’s at the Grimm Reaper’s door waiting for an icy salutation, I’d
say ‘a little down’ is pretty good.” Frank makes air quotes around “a little
down” with his fingers. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth moves to the side as she invites
the duo into the entrance way. As they pass her she turns towards them and
solicitously says, “Are you sure this is a good idea then?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“It’s just golf Elizabeth. It isn’t lion
hunting with a Bowie knife.” Frank responds, seeming surprised at the woman’s
concern. “John and I are going to be with him every second.” Frank says
reassuringly to the worried healthcare worker. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth answers, being not the least bit
placated<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>by Frank’s attempt to mitigate
the risk of taking a dying man golfing, “Oh yeah, what are you going to do if
the good Lord decides to take him right there on the golf course, file a
temporary restraining order against God Himself?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Let’s just say I hope the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">good</i> Lord has a <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">good</i> attorney.” Frank says in a slightly arrogant tone.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Freakin’ lawyers!” the phrase rolls easily
off the tongue of John Lafferty. After almost forty years of friendship it has
become a well-worn phrase, used as often as a carpenter uses his favorite
hammer. He then continues, “Can we see the patient? Or are we going to stand
here in the vestibule all day discussing the legal prowess of my good friend
here against the Almighty?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As the trio walks down the hall towards
Ray’s bedroom they hear the familiar sound of his buzz-saw snoring. It is his
trade mark amongst those unfortunate enough to be around him when he is asleep.
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Do you think we should disturb him?”
Elizabeth asks. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Are you serious? He was born disturbed.”
Frank chortles.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As Frank crosses the threshold of Ray’s bedroom
he cups his hands around his mouth and yells, “Four!” Elizabeth pushes pass him,
gently brushing his hands away from his mouth in a scolding manner. She crosses
the room to the bedside of her patient. Over these last many months she has
grown very protective of him<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray begins to awaken but is still a little
foggy-headed as he looks in the direction of the door. He looks back at
Elizabeth and scolds, “Dammit Elizabeth, how many times do I have to tell you
to make sure the front door is closed? Look what kind of shit flies in when you
don’t.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John now walks well into the room, “Yeah,
well why don’t you get off your lazy ass and close it yourself and leave this
poor woman alone?” John sits on the edge of Ray’s bed and leans towards his
dying friend, “How you feeling brother?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“As fit as Nero’s fiddle the night Rome
burned.” Ray answers jokingly. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Is there anything <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">we</i> can get you?” Frank chimes in. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“A Godfather sub from DiBella’s.” Ray
responds hungrily. “You know I think a good sandwich is the thing I’m going to
miss the most besides golf when I…” Ray stops in mid-sentence without
finishing.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank still standing beside his two friends
says bluntly, “Well you ready to go?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Go where?” Ray inquires. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As John raises himself from his perch on
the bed he responds, “We have a tee time in an hour.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray looks disapprovingly at his two
friends, “So that’s why you’re dressed in those clown suits. Did you stop here
on your way just to rub it in? Well, have a great time and don’t worry about
Elizabeth and me, we were planning on getting married and having a couple of
kids.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank smiles churlishly at John and turns
to Elizabeth, “Can you have your betrothed here ready to go in fifteen
minutes?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth is still looking quite concerned
but answers, “It depends on whether or not he cooperates.” Elizabeth has
already begun readying Ray by removing the intravenous tube from his arm, it
having performed its function of providing Ray with his morning medication. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“What are you talking about?” Ray questions,
still not quite understanding what his friends are suggesting. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You are coming with us. Grab the kid’s
clubs.” Frank commands as he turns to John.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray instantly brightens his demeanor as he
practically jumps out of bed, almost before Elizabeth is finished removing the
IV from his arm. “Well what took you guys so long? I’ll throw on some clothes,
put on my golf shoes, splash some water on my face, and I’ll be ready to kick
both your sorry asses all over the course.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;">Chapter 3<o:p></o:p></span></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor leans over the sink in his
bathroom and douses his face with cold water. He reaches for the hand towel
lovingly placed on the vanity top by Elizabeth just moments before. As he
removes the towel from his face he is almost paralyzed by the reflection
looking back at him in the mirror. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In what seems like overnight the firm skin
on his face has become loose and saggy. His white teeth have darkened and
rotted from the ravages of disease and the effects of medications taken to ease
the suffering of that disease. And his once wavy, thick black hair has thinned
and grayed. In essence he has aged thirty years in just little more than one.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray is not sure whose face this is staring
back at him in the mirror, but it certainly could not be the same one he
remembers from that morning just fifteen months ago as he prepared to meet with
his friend and doctor, John Lafferty.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That morning he looked at a much healthier
version of what he currently saw, and wondered then how it was even possible
that a disease was growing inside him that might spell his demise. Ray felt and
looked fine, except for a little discomfort and his recent quickness to fatigue;
he had just chalked those inconveniences up to age. At the insistence of his
doctor and golfing buddy Ray decided to have some tests completed, and today he
would find out the results of those tests.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It would be an understatement to say Ray
Taylor is more than a little nervous as he enters the medical building which
houses Dr. Lafferty’s office. The good doctor has graciously agreed to meet Ray
before any of his patients or staff has arrived.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray knocks sheepishly on the office door, almost
as if he does not want it answered. He thinks to himself that as long as he
stays on this side of the door he can avoid the potentially unpleasant news. He
knocks harder when he realizes how silly he is being. One way or another he
must know.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The office door opens slowly. What Ray
does not know is that his friend was on the other side, hesitant to open the
door for similar reasons. “Ray, come in and have a seat.” John says clinically.
<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But Ray knows instantly from the
expression on his friend’s face that a medical consultation will be
unnecessary. Almost forty years of friendship has taught him how to read his
friend’s expressions. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“It’s bad, isn’t it?” Ray spews out as he
walks into the room. Without giving his friend a chance to answer he continues,
“Look, let’s cut the preliminary niceties of bedside manner and get to the
point. How long do I have?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Dr. Lafferty, seeing the desperate desire
in his friend’s request to know his fate, knows better than to try to placate
him as he would with other patients in a similar situation, “Twelve to eighteen
months, give or take a month or two.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray falls into a chair by the desk as if
he suddenly had no legs. He fidgets with a big golden putter and ball attached
to a wooden base that the good doctor had won for accumulating the least number
of putts in a round at a golf outing a few years ago. Thirty two if Ray
remembers correctly. A quick glance at the plaque on the trophy confirms he is
right. Yep, it was thirty two. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He thinks how odd it is that most people
blink their eyes and a month or two goes by without notice. They scurry about
doing all the banal things that humans do to distract themselves from the
inescapable fact that someday they will leave this earth. They work, they play,
they argue and love, and they raise their children. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>All the while the great equalizer; death,
waits for them just outside their last couple months of life. The human called
Raymond Taylor has just this instant become keenly aware of death now waiting
for <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">him</i> in the fringe created by the
“month or two” defined by his doctor and good friend.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Well, seeing as this is not an estimate
of whether I am 160 as opposed to 170 yards from the green,” Ray says somberly and
continues, “I hope you won’t be insulted if I ask for a second opinion.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His lifelong friend looks at him with the
best medical expression he can muster under the circumstance and answers,
“Certainly not. You’re also a dick.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray looks at his friend who knew just what
to say in this, the worst moment of his life, and holding back tears, he laughs
to keep from crying. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John Lafferty quickly says, “Hey, tell you
what. How about I cancel my patients for today, we get that bum Godles to clear
his calendar, and we all play a round of golf, smoke cigars, and get loaded?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray points towards the door and says, “Let’s
make it happen.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Bang! Bang! Bang! Ray Taylor is shocked
back to the present by a series of knocks on his bathroom door. “Hey, what are
you doing in there, playing with yourself? Come on we have a tee time.” he
recognizes Frank’s sarcastic voice. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Coming, for Christ sake,” Ray responds
jokingly, “can’t a guy rub one out in peace?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray flings open the door and throws his
arms around Frank’s neck, “Come here big boy, you want to help me?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank recoils, “Back off pervert!”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank and Ray walk out the front door and
into the driveway where John is waiting by Frank’s SUV with his arms crossed,
“Come on. Come on. The clubs are loaded and we’re ready to go.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank and John help their ailing friend
into the backseat of the vehicle. Ray hears the door chime ringing. He wonders
how many more times he will hear a car door chime. Ray has been thinking much
about such things in recent months: <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Will
this be the last bird I hear sing, the last thunderstorm I will see, the last
orange juice I will taste, the last time I will feel the warmth of another
person’s skin on mine, or the last time I will smell the aroma of someone
burning wood in their fireplace.</i> <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";">Ray has surmised
that part of dying is recognizing that the most important blessings are the most
mundane, even if it is a blinding blast of sunlight delivered by a well-meaning
health care worker.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank and John slide into the front seat
and turn their heads to look at their friend in the back seat. “Did you bring
them?” John asks slyly of the driver. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Pointing to the center console Frank
answers, “If you mean the Monties, they’re in there.” Monties is the trio’s
slang for Monticristo cigars, which has become a staple of their golf outings.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John opens the console and pulls out one of
the Monticristos. Handing it to Ray in the back seat he clinically says, “Now
as your doctor I cannot recommend the imbibing of such a thing.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“But how about as my friend?” Quizzes Ray.
<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A smile crosses the doctor’s face, “As
your friend I say ‘Smoke ‘em if you got ‘em.’”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray slowly moves his nose over the entire
length of the cigar like a wine coinsure sniffing a fine glass of wine. “There’s
nothing better than a round of golf with friends.” Ray says as he looks pensively
out the window. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The vehicle begins to move and John turns
back around towards Ray and says, “I feel the same way buddy.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I was talking about the cigars.” Ray
quips sarcastically. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You’re such a dick.” John says turning
back towards the front. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank’s SUV pulls onto the main road and
the three friends are off for what is sure to be their last golf outing
together in this world.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth Simpson fully flings open the
curtains in Ray Taylor’s room. She cranks open the window and stands for a
moment, letting the warm breeze stroke her face like a gentle lover. She posits
to herself that it’s a good time with Ray out of the house to wash his bedding
and straighten his room. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As she stands for a moment before
commencing her work Elizabeth thinks about the relationship she has developed
with her patient over these many months. Ray’s earlier allusion to a marriage was
more on the mark than it was off. She knows all too well that the relationship
between a hospice healthcare worker and her patient can in some ways be
compared to a marriage of sorts. There is love and irritation, joy and sadness,
laughter and tears, and conversation and silence. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth has shared hundreds of hours of
conversation with her patient, and probably many more in silence. She has
listened to music at his bedside, Blues mostly. Ray says one doesn’t
necessarily listen to the Blues, but rather one feels the Blues. It is the most
naked form of music; the heart, soul, and entirety of the singer’s being is
exposed through the music.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth once remembers Ray saying if there was
such a thing as reincarnation he would like to come back as a blues singer. He
said he would still have pain in his life, but at least his pain would provide
people entertainment and joy. Ray Taylor was a vessel of dichotomies like that;
joy from pain, courage from fear, and disliking change yet living a life drenched
in constant change. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She also remembers the many times he sent
her out of his room, and closing the door behind her she would hear him quietly
whimper in pain. She valued his dignity as a man over her desire to comfort
someone in pain. She knew it would be more painful for him emotionally to have
her see him tear up in pain than the pain itself. So she would resist the
temptation to open the door, and would suffer a different kind of pain on her
side of that barrier.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank’s SUV containing the three
participants in the forthcoming round of golf pulls up to Eagle’s Knob golf
club. The course was designed and built by Chester L. Eagle. He invented a
special heat-resistant knob used in manufacturing. He made millions off of his
invention and, being an avid golfer, decided to use his new found wealth to
build a golf course. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The entrance to the course leaves little
doubt about the origins of its name. A thirty foot sculpture of the course
owner’s invention greets everyone arriving at Eagle’s Knob. Over the years it
has become quite the local landmark. Additionally, all of Chester L.’s employees
are required to wear special hats shaped like the knob, and the bar stools in
the club house are shaped that way as well.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is local folklore that one of the holes
at Eagle’s Knob was even designed by golf legend Jack Nicklaus. Over the years
there has been much speculation about which hole it might be. There have been
more than a few heated debates on the subject, and on one occasion, a lively debate
came to fist-a-cuffs between two golfers with differing opinions on the matter.
The altercation ended when one of the golfers bent the shaft of his five-wood
by hitting the other golfer over the head with it. Both golfers were expelled
from the course and asked never to return. Eagle’s Knob could not stand for
such brutish behavior. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Reportedly, Chester L. was seen smiling
throughout the altercation, having been quite pleased that the tale could
inspire such pugilistic debate. He surmised that keeping the myth alive could
only be good for business. Anyway, no one really knew for sure if the myth was
true, but adding fuel to the fire was the fact that just a couple years ago the
Golden Bear himself was seen playing a round at Eagle’s Knob.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Taylor sits on the passenger side of one of two golf carts the trio has secured
for their round at Eagle’s Knob golf club. He methodically fingers a golf glove
his friend John Lafferty took from his bag and tossed to Ray just a moment
before. John is now securing their golf bags to the rear of the carts while
Frank Godles is in the club house paying for their rounds. Ray listens to the
club heads banging together as he feels the material of the glove between his
fingers. It was soft and rubbery, similar in nature to the material of a shammy
one would use to dry a car after washing it.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is hard to believe, Ray thought, that it
was nearly forty years ago that he was a shy 15 year old boy sitting on a hard
wooden bench in the caddy shack of a local country club. A lanky blonde boy
approaches, “It’s the hardest part of the job.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“What is?” Ray sheepishly questions. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“The waiting to be assigned to a golfer.”
the blonde boy reaches out his hand, “I’m Frank Godles. Is this your first
season?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray, reaching out his hand, “Yeah, I
thought it would be a good way to make a few bucks. I’m sure it’s got to be
better than slinging fast food to the masses.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The two shake hands as Frank sits down on
the bench next to his new friend. It isn’t long before they are called to go
out. As they grab the bags of their newly assigned golfers and walk to the
first tee they see another boy with his back to them. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The other boy turns as he hears them
approach and greets them, “Hey, I’m John Lafferty.” he says as he holds out his
hand. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Ray Taylor.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The three shake hands, each acquainting
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“It’s a beautiful day for golf.” John exclaims
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah, if you’re playing.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank responds sarcastically. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I heard they let the caddies play on
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yes.” Both Frank and John respond simultaneously.
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Then it’s a date?” Ray questions his new
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play the first of what is to be hundreds of rounds of golf together. Through births,
deaths, marriages, divorces, job gains, job losses, and everything in between
the three will have one constant; golf. It is the one unchangeable commodity in
their lives. The physics of the game never change, unlike life itself.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As he sits in the golf cart with the glove
still in his hand Ray Taylor thinks how odd it is that golf brought the three
of them together almost forty years ago, and now they are readying themselves
for their final round as a threesome.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray raises his gaze from the glove in his
hand to see Frank exiting the clubhouse and walking toward the two carts onto
which John has been loading their clubs, “So I am the odd man out? Riding alone
again?” Frank kiddingly complains. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I wouldn’t want to get sued for bad driving.”
John returns Frank’s complaint. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“How about you Ray, you ready to play some
golf?” Frank says as he now approaches the cart in which Ray Taylor sits. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Let’s make it happen.” Ray says as he
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“First things first.” John admonishes his
friends as he clips the ends off three Monties and hands one to each of them.
Then he torches Ray’s cigar with his wind resistant lighter. He does likewise
to Frank’s, and then his own. The three friends sit for a moment, enjoying the
cool robust smoke of the Monties and the quiet of each other’s company.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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roll up to the first tee and come to a stop. John and Frank bound from their
carts like school boys on a lark. Raymond hobbles off his perch slowly. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You take honors Ray.” John offers his
ailing friend. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Sure. Neither of you want to be the
victim of first tee jitters.” Ray suggests.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>He takes a puff of his cigar and walks to the tee box with his driver.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank places a tee in the ground and sets
Ray’s ball on top of it. “Now see if you can put one in the fairway. Nice and
easy now Ray.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray looks at his ball and then he looks up
to see Ray Sr. taking three steps back. A twelve year old Raymond Taylor stands
nervously over his ball; his young hands gripping the club with sweaty palms. He
tries to remember the instructions Ray Sr. has just given him. Now it is time
for Raymond to put into practice the lessons of his father. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He draws back on the club; K<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">eep your head down, keep your back straight,
keep your knees bent, move your hips, turn your body, break your wrists on your
back swing, shift your weight to your front foot on your follow through, and
keep your eye on the ball. <o:p></o:p></i></span></span></div>
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</span></span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">The
instructions play over and over in his 12 year old head, increasing in their
speed until they sound like an annoying mosquito. The instructions, which projected
a great amount of lucidity when his father outlined them, now become a jumbled
mess in young Raymond’s head.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Raymond hacks at the ball, forgetting all of
his father’s advice. A chunk of turf the size of a tea-cup saucer lunges ten
feet in front of him, but the ball remains steadfast. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Christ Almighty,” his father scolds, “you’re
not clubbing baby seals, you’re trying to loft the ball into the air.” he
continues, but in a much more dulcet tone, “Just guide the club head to the
ball and watch as it makes solid contact. Let the club do the work. Nice easy
swing, now try again.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Raymond swings the club as evenly as he
can and keeps his eyes on the ball until the club makes contact. The ball
arches into the air and lands in front of Raymond and his father about fifty
yards away. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Nice shot Ray!” It is the first time his
father has ever called him Ray instead of Raymond. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray feels a rush of blood throughout his
body as he answers his father, “Nothing to it.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Don’t get cocky.” admonishes Ray Sr.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray would never know his father as well as
he did on the golf course. It was one of the few times he could remember his
father showing approval for anything he did. On the course Ray felt he really
understood and knew the man called Ray Taylor Sr. Unfortunately that
understanding never extended outside the context of golf, except in the last 18
months of his father’s life as he suffered with dementia in that nursing home.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>During his frequent visits Ray saw a
different man than the one he grew up knowing. Nursing home dad was an open and
gentle man, a kinder and wiser man. The kind of father Ray always wanted
growing up. During those visits he drew insight into his father. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One visit in particular Ray Sr. thought
Ray Jr. was actually his brother who had already been deceased at the time for
several years. Ray Sr. opines to his dead brother in the form of his son, “Did
dad tell you what those bastards did to his store today?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Jr., pretending to be his uncle, answers
curiously, “No I hadn’t heard. What did they do?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Sr.’s father was a butcher and had a
small shop; he was also of German ancestory. Ray Sr. was just a boy of 9 years
old when World War II had started. He spent his most formative years growing up
in the shadow of being German during a period his own country was at war with
Germany.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Well they painted ‘Go home Nazi’ and ‘Die
Krout scum’ on the front of his store.” Ray Sr. answers as if the pain is hours
old and still raw. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Jr., not ever hearing this piece of
family history before, is shocked into silence. He finally regains himself and
softly says, “Dad that was some seventy years ago, and Uncle Ed has been dead
for nearly two years. I’m your son, Ray Jr.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Sr. just looks at his son with a
perplexed look on his face as if he is trying to decipher a complicated
algorithm, then asks, “How’s your kitties? What are their names?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray answers as he has done a hundred times
before, “Scooby-Do and Bam-Bam.” Ray Sr. laughs as he does every time he hears the
names. At least, Ray Jr. thought, he could offer this little bit of joy to his
ailing father in his final days.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Jr. was given an insight into his
father that he may never have gotten had it not been for those sometimes
painful visits in the nursing home. Not that he was happy his father had spent
the last months of his life in a nursing home. Something he had said many times
he wanted to avoid at all costs, even telling Ray to shoot him in the head
first. Ray Sr. always said he wanted to die on the golf course. “Now that,” he would
gleefully state, “would be the way to go.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray was suddenly struck by his experience
with Ray Sr. in the nursing home and the connection he now drew between it and
what Elizabeth had said about God screaming to us in our pain. Maybe God gave
Ray the gift of the father he always wanted in the waning and painful months of
Ray Sr.’s life. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray swings and strikes his ball. It sails
through the air and lands in the middle of the fairway about 220 yards from the
tee. And so starts his final round of golf with his two best friends.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chapter 5<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
Mulligan<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor’s drive on the second hole
hooks terribly left and rolls into the rough where there are scrubby little
bushes and small evergreen trees. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You takin’ a mulligan Ray?” Franks offers
sympathetically. A mulligan is a do-over of a really bad shot. The trio usually
allotted each player one mulligan per nine holes.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As he walks to the cart using his upside
down driver as a cane with which to steady himself Ray rejects the offer, “No,
I think I’ve already had my share of mulligans.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A confused John questions his friend, “But
you haven’t taken one yet, it’s only the second hole.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Haven’t I?” Ray sighs as he finally makes
it to the cart and slumps into the seat. He grabs for his cigar and places it
gingerly between his lips. He takes in the smoke and releases it. The expelled
smoke encircles his head, forming a cloud. Yeah, he has had more than a few
mulligans in his life; from his varied careers to his relationship with his
daughter.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A teenage Brittany’s young life was
spiraling out of control; it was the reason her mother had sent her to live
with her father. It did not take too many months for an altercation to ensue in
which Ray behaved brutishly toward his young, confused daughter. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It must have been overwhelmingly horrifying
and frightening for this young girl to have her father, whom she trusted and
loved, sitting on top her flailing his hand in anger. It was Frank that came to
collect Ray from the police station that night after Brittany had filed domestic
violence charges against him; a charge Ray knew was warranted even though he
tried to excuse his behavior to family and friends. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank just looked at his friend trying to
exculpate himself from blame and directly and succinctly said, “It doesn’t
matter what she <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">said</i> nor <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">did</i>, you can’t hit her.” Frank always
had a way of seeing through the crap and cutting to the core of an issue. It is
probably what made him such a great lawyer. Sometimes in their friendship Frank
was more the father figure that Ray had sorely lacked in his childhood, than he
was a friend.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The event
had haunted Ray throughout the rest of his life. He had had a teacher in high
school who once warned against making choices in life that would lead to such
regret. He said everyone had regrets in life, but that one should make choices
that limited regrets to things like, “I should have had the fish instead of the
veal,” or “I should have bought the black shoes instead of the brown ones,” or
“I should not have invested in that penny stock.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One should avoid making choices which led
to regrets like, “I should not have driven drunk and killed that guy,” or “I
should not have physically attacked my child.” Ray Taylor had many regrets in
life, striking his daughter in anger stood alone in his annals of regret. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In the still lonesomeness of solitude Ray
has wrestled with his regret and has shed more than a few tears over his sin
against his daughter. Because it was wrong, but also because of the guilt he has
had that his actions may have led to what transpired next in his daughter’s
young life. At the very least his actions did nothing to derail the coming
train wreck in Brittany’s life.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The wrong boy who was also out of control,
an addiction to heroin, a felony committed to satisfy that addiction and poof! The
little girl playing with Barbie dolls on her grandma’s living room floor was suddenly
being led into a court room in hand cuffs. One of the last places on earth a parent
wants to see their child other than in a casket is in a courtroom as a
defendant in a criminal case, and worse yet being one thousand percent guilty.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray is astonished as arguably the
strictest judge in the county sentences Brittany to probation, rehab, and a
series of AA meetings. It is strange to say, but Ray feels as he too is being
given probation, a chance to atone for his sins. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor sits in a small room that
contains folding chairs arranged in a circle and upon which have seated family
members of the addicts in rehab. Every Saturday morning they gather to discuss
the difficulties of living with an addict in the family. Then the family
members join their addicts to have a general meeting, after which they can
spend a couple of hours visiting.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray was never quite sure who needed rehab
more, his heroin-addicted daughter, or himself. Golf was not the only thing
bequeathed to Ray by his father. In many ways Ray was to his daughter an
amalgamation of all the traits which he longed to edit from his own father’s
character growing up.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>After rehab Ray took Brittany in, the two
of them living in Ray’s one bedroom apartment. But it was a chance, Ray
thought, in some small way to atone for the sins of his past. His own personal
Yom Kippur, sort of speak. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The relationship grew, and though Ray had
not seen his daughter as much during the ensuing years as he would have liked,
there was definitely a special bond that could not be broken. It was like the
bond developed between survivors of a plane crash or some other such disaster.
In a way Brittany and Ray had survived their own kind of crash.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray grabs his utility wedge as he walks
from the cart to his ball lying beside a scrubby little bush with a small
evergreen four feet directly behind it. It would be a tricky shot indeed. He
stands in the only position he can to have any kind of swing at his ball; with
the scrubby little bush between himself and his ball. He draws the club back a
quarter of the way so as to not entangle it in the evergreen branches and
accelerates the club head towards the ball. It makes contact and propels into
the air and lands close to the middle of the fairway about sixty yards away. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Great out Ray!” John and Frank say in
unison as if they are Simon and Garfunkel. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“It’ll play.” Ray says with relief in his
voice. He hobbles back to the cart and once again sticks his cigar between his
lips and takes a long drag. The exhaled smoke drifts away from Ray, riding the
crest of a breeze. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray thinks of all the times in his life
when he has put himself in difficult situations as he had done with his
previous drive. He also recounts to himself how, just like with the shot he had
just executed, a certain element of luck or good fortune had extricated him
from those tough spots. Elizabeth would most likely say he was blessed, and Ray
would not raise his voice in opposition to her spiritual characterization of
the fortuitous outcomes to his bad choices.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Par Three<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John Lafferty glances sideways at his
patient, friend, and golf companion sitting next to him in the golf cart as he
drives it to the next tee. As a doctor familiar with the advanced stage of
Ray’s condition, he knows how much pain his friend must be in at the present.
Yet riding over the rolling and bumpy fairways and roughs of Eagle’s Knob in a
golf cart with a cigar dangling from his mouth, Ray Taylor appears to be just a
random golfer on any given day.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Dr. Lafferty would not dare ask his friend
how he is feeling; it is a struggle in which the man of friendship must prevail
over the man of medicine. Besides, Ray is golfing with his best friends on a
beautiful day and partaking in a fine cigar. What more could any man want in
the waning days of his life? Hell, what more could a man want on <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">any</i> day of his life? <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is a bittersweet pill for the doctor to
swallow; knowing that this will be the final round of golf for the three
friends, and knowing that in a real sense Ray is enjoying it more than any
round of his life precisely because it is <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">his</i>
final round.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank Godles motors his golf cart ahead of
his two friends, almost running them off the cart path and giggling as he
passes. He waits until the last possible moment before running into the next
tee and slams on the brakes while turning the wheel, skidding sideways like a
1970s TV detective.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He is standing on the tee with a seven-iron
in his hand when his two tardy friends roll slowly up to the number three tee
at Eagle’s Knob. The hole is a surprisingly tough par-three that is only 165
yards long. The green stands like Iwo Jima. And if the water completely
surrounding the green was not intimidating enough, festooning both sides of the
fairway leading to the water is a series of deep bunkers; sand traps.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank addresses his ball and swings, his
two golfing companions hardly having removed their clubs from their bags. His ball
flies through the air in line with the flag stick on the right side of the
green. It lands on the green then rolls into water (the greens at Eagle’s Knob are
infamously fast). <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“That’s what you get for going out of
turn, Ray had honors from the last hole.” John scolds his friend. Honors is the
term used to describe the tradition of the golfer having the best score on the
previous hole shooting first on the next hole. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank slowly turns to his friend and
reveals an extended middle finger. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Nice summation counselor.” Ray says as he
walks to the tee with his club and ball. As he passes Frank he throws one arm
around his friend and brightly says, “You gotta love being out here! A bad day
on the golf course still beats the best day at work.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“If you two are finished with your love-fest
can we play some golf?” John says sounding humorously annoyed.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray stands over his ball, turns his head
and looks down the sadistic fairway to the green. He turns his head again and looks
at his ball. He repeats this process several times as if he cannot believe what
kind of sadist would design such a golf hole. Maybe Jack Nicklaus he thinks.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He takes a few practice swings with his
nine-iron. Unlike his impetuous friend Ray decides to play it safe and lay up
in front of the water around the green. If he can play his nine-iron 125-130
yards out, and in the fairway, then he can possibly chip onto the green and one
putt for a par. He may be able to control the roll of his ball on the green better
by chipping it on rather than driving it on as Frank had done.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray pauses on the thought of playing it
safe. It is illustrative of the dichotomy that has been his life; playing it
safe on the golf course where it does not matter, but taking too many chances
in real life. No one could accuse Ray Taylor of timidity leading him to playing
it safe to his own detriment. Ray had just the opposite problem.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He was nineteen years old when it all
could have ended. A couple of Ray’s friends at the time lived in a fourth floor
apartment with a balcony that was accessible through a sliding glass door. The
apartment was a frequent hangout for Ray and his friends, party central was
what they affectionately called it.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One night, as they drank heavily and
inhaled from a bong even more heavily, Ray got it in his head that he was going
to reenact a story of which he had recently been made aware. The daring tale
recounted how Jim Morrison once walked the rail of a balcony after he had been
drinking heavily one night.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Much to the protestations of his friends
Ray slides open the glass door. Before his friends have a chance to react he is
up on the rail. It is quite the scene; his friends pleading with Ray to come
down off the balcony rail while Ray is telling them to F-off.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He walks gingerly across the front of the rail
like a high wire performer in a circus. He gets to the corner of one side and
falls to the inside of the balcony, landing with a thud and drunken laughter.
It was just as likely that he could have fallen the other way to the pavement
below. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You’re one crazy son of a bitch.” a young
John Lafferty scolds him. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Who, me? I was just looking for the
bathroom. You mean it’s not over there?” Ray points to the balcony from which
he has just fallen.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray plops down on the sofa while John
remains standing. Ray leans forward as he takes a long hit off the bong, holds in
the smoke for what seems like an eternity, and then releases it into the air in
the direction of his friend. He begins to speak before all the smoke is gone
from his lungs and it slowly leaks out of his mouth as he talks, “Can I ask you
something,” and without stopping for approval from his friend he continues,
“you’re going to be a doctor, right?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The future Dr. Lafferty nods in the
affirmative.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray continues, “How can you, or anyone for
that matter, commit the ungodly number of years it takes to achieve that goal?”
<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John Lafferty answers promptly as if his
answer has been waiting for years like a lovelorn girl waiting to be asked for
her hand in holy matrimony, “My father once told me commitment is the thread
that binds together the fabric of our lives. Without commitment there is
nothingness which in itself is borne of commitment; instead of committing to
something the individual commits to nothing.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The
future doctor swigs his beer and continues, “Commitment is the rudder that keeps
the boat on course. Commitment is the needle on the compass that guides the
weary traveler to the safety and warmth of home. Commitment wakes you in the
morning and propels you to work; it soothes you at night and gently rocks you
to sleep. Commitment rarely leads to constant happiness, but it does create the
space for happiness by insuring a satisfied mind and a contented heart.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray looks wearily at his friend and
responds, “That’s a lot of words.” And then he nods into unconsciousness.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John Lafferty smiles at his friend who is passed
out as a result of being stoned and inebriated. He realizes that Ray does not
yet have the ability to fully comprehend the wisdom imparted by the senior Mr.
Lafferty to his young son. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is not a knock on Ray, he just seems
unable to focus and commit to one thing. John ponders his passed out friend and
wonders if it is environmental or if some people like Ray are just born sans
the commitment gene. Or maybe he, John, is just being overly analytical, and
his friend will one day grow out of his aversion to commitment. He walks to the
kitchen to get another beer, still thinking about his father’s commitment
advice and how he might aid his comatose friend in one day understanding it.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Throughout his entire life it seemed Ray
was walking that rail, somehow managing to fall to the less severe consequences
of his reckless behavior. If there was a God, Ray pontificates, he sure has a full
time job looking after him.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray swings at his ball and it sails into
the air and lands left of the center of the fairway approximately 130 yards
from the tee box. He has achieved the first phase of his strategy. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John Lafferty, seeing how well the tactic
worked for Ray, follows suit. His ball flies too far left and lands in one of
the many bunkers lining the fairway.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Looks like you have the best chance for
par Ray.” comments Frank jealously. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I’m not on the green yet, and there is
still that moat around it that’s looming large.” Ray responds cautiously.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The trio exits the green with Ray having
gotten his par and Frank securing a bogie after the penalty stroke for hitting
his ball in the water. The good doctor fairs much worse, having plopped his
sand shot into the water and then three putting the green for a score of seven.
Ray is happy with his par on arguably the toughest par-three the friends play
on any course.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray
sits in the cart before proceeding to the next hole. He takes a drag of his
cigar and lets the smoke meander from his mouth like a gentle mist rising from
a swamp. He wonders in what direction his life may have ultimately traveled had
he made choices as he has just made on the par-three. He is still lost in
thought as his friend John Lafferty guides their golf cart towards the next
hole.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chapter 7<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Lost Ball<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As the golfing triumvirate pulls up to the
fourth tee Ray lets out a groan. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You okay?” John asks as he turns to his
friend. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I hate this hole.” Ray answers with dread
in his voice.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">This
hole</i> is a 510 yard par-five with two severe dog legs. The fairway is shaped
like a sideways Z, with each leg measuring 170 yards. What make the hole even
more diabolical are the dense woods that line the fairway on both sides. Many
golfers will try to aim their drive over the trees on the right side, in an
attempt to short cut the first leg of the hole and land their ball in the
fairway somewhere on the second leg.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor employs this strategy, but his
drive is not quite far enough and the three men hear his ball hit a series of
trees. His ball hitting the trees makes a woody sound analogous to a slugger
hitting a home run. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank walks up to the tee and as he passes
his friend he states the obvious, “You’re in jail over there.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray passes his friend in silence and
ponders his predicament.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A thirty nine year old Ray Taylor sits in
a conference room at a long mahogany table waiting for his manager to arrive. Ray
has been working as a computer programmer for the last decade since graduating
from trade school. His manager has requested a meeting with Ray to discuss “a
matter of great import.” There are no pleasantries exchanged between the two men.
The meeting is brief.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Ray your work has suffered greatly in
recent months, and your attitude is not consistent with the culture of this
company.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Before letting his boss continue Ray
interrupts, “Are you firing me?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I have to let you go, the higher ups are
at the end of their rope and I cannot cover for you anymore.” His boss
continues as he mindlessly shuffles the papers in front of him, “Look Ray,
you’re a nice guy with many positive qualities. I really hope you can come out
of whatever fog you’re in before it destroys your life.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray, jumping to his feet spews his anger
and frustration, “I’m going to get you for this you prick. You don’t give a
shit about me, you’re just trying to placate me in hopes I won’t kick your
sorry ass all over this room.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The years of sitting in that windowless office
and crunching computer code for twelve hours a day had led to excessive
drinking and drug abuse by Ray. He was living in conflict with the better angels
of his nature, although he would not realize this until years later. He would
first have to spend years lost in the trees.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">trees</i>
of Ray Taylor’s life would mean nearly four years of drifting from one menial
job to the next. Pizza delivery, gas station clerk, drywall laborer, and a
plethora of other such jobs would sustain him.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It seemed to be Ray’s avocation to always
settle for less, to just <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">sustain </i>life
instead of truly enhance it. He never thought he deserved anything more, and so
he never got anything more. Many people are afraid of failure, Ray Taylor was
afraid of success. Failure always seemed to be a comfort, like a well-worn pair
of pajamas. So whenever he got close to success, like with his computer career,
Ray would somehow manage to sabotage himself.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor would eventually find his way
out of the trees in his life, if not always on the golf course. One thing remained
steadfast; he was blessed with friends that stood by his side as he searched. Throughout
his time in the trees John Lafferty and Frank Godles had stood by their friend,
many times covering his rounds of golf when he was too broke to afford them
himself. They seemed to have an innate instinct for knowing when to stand back,
but yet still be close enough to offer support.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray found his way out of the trees after
losing his computer job, landing a maintenance job at the local high school
which he would hold until he was too ill to continue. He enjoyed the work, and
surprisingly to Ray, he enjoyed working with the students. Maybe in some small
way, he thought, he would be able to give them the benefit of his lifetime of mistakes
and bad choices. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>One day a girl named Sophie approaches
Ray, “Hey Mr. Ray,” the students call him Mr. Ray, it is removed from
friendship while still maintaining a sense of familiarity, “can I ask you something?”
<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Sure Sophie, what is it?” Ray answers
gently.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Tears well up in the young girl’s eyes as
she blurts out, “My boyfriend is nineteen and wants me to leave school and go
with him to Nevada where he has a job with his Uncle.” She fiddles with the rubber
case around her cell phone as she continues, “I don’t have anyone I can rely on
for good advice. My parents are much too busy working; they have convinced
themselves that the McMasion, the dinners out five times a week, and the yearly
vacations to Hilton Head are all for <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">my</i>
benefit. My father never denies me anything I want and calls me his ‘Little
Princess’ as if I’m still six years old. And my mother wants so desperately to recapture
her youth and be my friend instead of my parent that she tries to dress, talk,
and act like my friends at school. My parents don’t give me rules and
discipline why should I trust them to give me advice and guidance? Anyway, my
friends all say I should listen to what my heart is telling me. What do you
think?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray
looks at the girl pensively and posits his advice, “Look at me Sophie.” The
young girl raises her head and looks into Ray’s shop-worn eyes that look back
at the world like old wood windows in a dilapidated century home in need of
paint and putty. They are eyes that have seen life’s pleasures and pain, life’s
too few awesome days and too many prosaic ones. They are eyes that have belied
subterfuge and acrimony and have openly expressed happiness and love. They are
eyes that have cried a mountain of tears and laughed in their own way at the
ubiquitous humor of everyday life. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Don’t ever follow your heart; it will
always lead you astray. Prisons are full of people that have followed their
hearts, so are rehabs, and so are the rundown, roach-infested apartments of
single mothers who once followed their hearts and the men they <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">thought </i>they loved.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Sophie, what does your intellect say?”
Ray continues, “That is what you should follow; reason and judgment, not
emotion and fleeting instant gratification. What is your intellect telling you
would be the best path for <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">your</i> life?
Don’t disrespect yourself by following your heart. You deserve more.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray became known among the students as
someone who tells it like it is, that is what they liked about him. In a time
when so many of their parents, teachers, and other authority figures tried hard
to be a friend to the teenagers in their precious charge, Ray embodied through
his demeanor and words that he was most certainly not a friend. They had enough
friends their own age, what they needed from the adults in their lives was
guidance, not friendship.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray’s road had been marked by potholes, and
frequent trips into deep ditches. Maybe, just maybe, he thought, his experience
in what <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">not</i> to do could help one or
two of these young people to make better choices for their lives. One of Ray’s
favorite quotes he shared with the students was by the nineteenth century
German leader Otto Von Bismarck: <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Any fool can learn from his own mistakes, a
truly wise man learns from <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></i></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>the mistakes of
others.</span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>What Ray realized since his recent illness
was that he took from the students he knew through the years as much healing
and redemption as he had hoped to leave them of wisdom and experience. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Now, standing by his ball that he and his
friends had just spent ten minutes locating, Ray wondered if he had reached
even one student in the years he dispensed his lifetime of hard won wisdom. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray lines up his shot. He has a small
window between the trees through which he can see the fairway onto which he
hopes to place his ball. Ray decides to use his seven-iron, played back in his
stance to keep the ball low so as to avoid the low-hanging branches. He pulls
back on his club about three quarters of the way and guides it to his ball.
Ray’s ball shoots through the trees and lands on the fairway comprising the
second leg of this brutal par five. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Nice out Ray!” exclaims Frank. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray smiles, for in a larger sense he knows
that he <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">has</i> made it out of the trees.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chapter 8<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;">The Sand Trap<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth Simpson removes Ray Taylor’s
bedding from the washing machine and places it into the dryer. She moves with
great purpose and alacrity back to Ray’s bedroom where she begins to
straighten, dust, and vacuum. As she moves the vacuum cleaner back and forth
over the worn carpet she sees it.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She cannot understand how she could have
missed it until now. Folded neatly into an envelope bearing her name, and
leaned up against Ray’s Bluetooth speaker on top of his dresser, is a hand-written
note. It simply reads: <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Elizabeth, thank you for shouldering the burden of this broken and
imperfect<o:p></o:p></i></span></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>man. You have brought
healing where there is no cure and health that <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>transcends the
physical, in what have been the waning days of my life. I know I do <o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>not deserve your kindness,
but know that neither has it gone unappreciated. P.S. I <o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>have heard the
screaming and it is beautiful.<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth sits on the edge of the stripped
bed and sobs uncontrollably.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor stands in a fairway bunker on
the fifth hole at Eagle’s Knob where he has moments before hit his drive. The
bunkers at Eagle’s Knob are deep and foreboding. Many a’ golfer has used
multiple strokes extricating their ball from the monstrous hazards. Ray is
expecting to do the same. The bunker in which he is currently trapped does not
disappoint, and three shots later Ray is finally in the fairway. He exits the
hole achieving a quadruple bogie, four strokes over par.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Sitting in the golf cart slowly puffing on
his cigar Ray Taylor thinks about all of life’s bunkers in which he has found
himself throughout the years. But the one that comes to mind as the crowning
achievement of Ray Taylor’s spectacular career of landing himself in bunkers is
The Third Man episode.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is a 2am rendition of Warren Zevon’s
“Lawyers, Guns, and Money” Frank has set as the ringtone on his phone that
wakes him from a dead sleep, and unfortunately wakes his surly wife as well.
“Did you forget to turn off your phone again?” she asks with irritation in her
voice. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Go back to sleep, it is probably just a
client that needs extricated from some trouble.” Frank says with a certain
amount of irritation in <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">his</i> voice.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The display on his phone tells him he is
half right. The photo shows a grinning Ray Taylor with a cigar stuck in his
mouth as the smoke encircles his head. Frank remembers it was taken at a golf
outing his firm held a few years back. He liked the photo because it showed Ray
at his happiest, and that is why Frank used it.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank answers the call as he walks into
the living room, “Ray, what the hell are you doing calling this time of night?
Are you drunk?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray’s voice is in stark contrast to the picture
of him on Frank’s phone, “Frank, I need your help, now!” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“What’s going on Ray?” Frank responds,
barely recognizing Ray’s voice. It was not an inebriated voice but something
different.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray desperately answers his friend’s
request with a plea absent of explanation, “I cannot explain over the phone,
can you please just get to my place as quickly as possible?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank agrees and tries to soothe his
friend at the same time, “Okay, okay buddy I will be there as quick as I can.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank hangs up the phone and returns to
the bedroom and throws on a pair of jeans, a hoody, and his black Armani
overcoat. He is putting on his Nike Air Jordan’s when his wife stirs, <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Where are you going this time of night?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Ray’s got himself into a bit of a scrape
and needs my help.” Frank answers his wife. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“What else is new?” she says cynically as
she rolls over and falls back asleep.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Before pulling his car out of the garage Frank
opens the glove box and removes his nine millimeter Glock pistol. He prays he
does not need it, but by the urgency and desperation in Ray’s voice he is not
sure what to expect when he arrives at Ray’s.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Standing at Ray’s front door Frank
considers just turning around and going back home. He thinks his wife is probably
right the many times she has said that Ray should remove himself from his own
soup. Frank is nothing if not loyal, and he loves his friend. He checks the
Glock in his waistband and rings the bell.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank nervously looks behind him as he
waits for a response from the bell. The door opens quickly, a strong hand pulls
him inside, and he is thrown against the wall. Two men frisk him and one grabs
the gun from his waistband. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“What were you going to do with this?” The
Third Man says. He is the leader of the group of strangers and is now standing
five feet in front of Frank after his rather thorough employee tossed him the
gun. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Third Man is more than just a
numerical acknowledgement of the number of strangers in the room; it is the
moniker of the man currently speaking to Frank. He is a local “businessman” who
is known to have connections to organized crime. He is also a huge Orson Welles
fan and took his nickname from the legend’s movie of the same title. He is so
obsessed with his nom de guerre that he always makes sure he has only two other
men with him so that he can be true to The Third Man name.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“A guy can never be too careful these days
with myriad unsavory characters roaming free.” Franks says coolly and then
adds, “Forgive me; I forgot to whom I was speaking. I meant the many different
unsavory characters.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Third Man girds his most patronizing
voice and responds to Frank’s insult, “Thank you for the clarification
counselor. The university at which I matriculated and from which I eventually
earned my Masters of Business Administration. The same university attended by
James Madison; Princeton University, was remiss in teaching me big words like <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">myriad</i>. I assumed your friend here was
calling a life preserver, not an English professor.” He points to Ray slumped
in a recliner. The light is dim, but even with a Lilliputian amount of light
Frank can see Ray has been badly roughed up.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray’s eyes are swollen almost shut and his
lips are bloody and swollen as well, which would account for his odd-sounding
voice over the phone. He is clenching his mid-section, a sign that he has been repeatedly
punched or kicked there. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Third Man continues, “Now, I was just
having a Tet a Tet with your associate here and decided that remuneration for
my services rendered thirty days prior would be forthcoming immediately.” He
walks over to Frank and extends his hand, “Do we have a deal counselor.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Thirty five years of lawyering has taught
Frank that once one is considered weak there is no point to negotiation. And
accepting The third Man’s initial offer would make him look weak indeed. Even
when negotiating with a man that has as dangerous a caliber as the one standing
in front of him now, Frank knows he must project strength. So Frank decides to
offer The Third Man invective in lieu of a handshake. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Forgive me for not shaking your hand,”
Frank says in a tone a dedicated erudite would find boorish, “but I have made
it a lifelong policy not to touch garbage.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray is horrified by his friend’s apparent
obtuseness with regards to the gravity of the situation. And his apparent ignorance
about the reputation of the man he has just characterized as the previous
week’s chicken bones, leftover pizza, and coffee grounds.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The third man wraps his rather large hand
around Frank’s throat and pushes him against the wall, “Does this situation
look like a joke to you <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Mr. Seinfeld</i>?
<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>I could end your pathetic life in an
instant.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank’s voice remains as calm as if he is
reading a dull legal brief, “Yes, I suppose you could, but then you would never
see a dime of your money. Unless you think this dead beat is going to pick it
off a magical money tree he has growing in the back yard.” Frank motions to Ray
in the chair. The only sign of nerves on Frank is a small bead of sweat
dangling from his left earlobe like cheap costume jewelry on a prostitute
plying her trade on a Saturday night.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Third Man knows all too well that
physical intimidation only works when the target of that intimidation has fear,
and this guy, he thinks to himself, appears to have none.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“So what has your brilliant legal mind
constructed as a means by which I might be compensated?” The Third Man says as
he loosens his grip from around Frank’s throat. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank remembers reading in the newspaper
about an associate of The Third Man who is currently being held and will soon
be adjudicated. And it is with that associate in mind that Frank inks his deal;
sort of speak, “I give you half the money Ray owes you in cash…” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Third Man does not let Frank conclude
the terms of his deal before interrupting, “What? I take only payment in full;
this ain’t some kind of swap meet. Excuse me; this<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> is not </i>some kind of swap meet.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Frank continues, seemingly unaware of
The Third Man’s interruption, “You have an associate by the name of Warren B.
Stoll, a.k.a. Jumpy?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah, what about him?” The Third Man says
showing some curiosity. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank now has The Third Man very curious,
asking questions whose answers are dependent on Frank. “Jumpy has recently
found <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">himself </i>in a bit of a sticky
situation, is that not correct?” Frank now takes control of the conversation; The
Third Man has no other choice but to follow with a response. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah, a bum rap if you ask me. What about
it?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“In addition to half the money Ray owes
you in cash, I assure a quality legal representation for Jumpy, and I am sure a
speedy dismissal of all charges against him.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“How can you guarantee an acquittal, do
you know the DA?” The Third Man asks with a certain amount of skepticism. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Let’s just say I know enough <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">about</i> him to be dangerous…to him. Specifically
something that would end his rather lucrative career.” Frank boasts.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Well, well, well counselor it looks like
you have the stench of garbage on you as well.” The Third Man accuses. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“The difference is I am wallowing in
garbage to save my friend.” Frank says defensively. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“That is moral relativism.” The Third Man
pragmatically volleys his response and continues, “Motivation matters little. The
reason you are willing to lower yourself into the slime of blackmail does not
make it any less slimy. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">You</i> know it
is blackmail, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">I </i>know it is blackmail,
and soon the DA will feel the sting of being the target of that blackmail. So
don’t try to pretty it up and place a bow on it by talking about higher
motives. If your friend would not have stupidly made a mess of his business
with me, you would have saved your little piece of knowledge against the DA
until such a time you could get something else you wanted.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Of course Frank knows The Third Man is
right. So when The Third Man nods approvingly, “You got a deal counselor. Nice
doing business with you.” and sticks out his hand, this time Frank shakes it. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As The Third Man and his goons leave Ray’s
place The Third Man hands Frank his gun as a quarterback would hand off a
football to one of his running backs as he says, “I never keep a man’s gun
unless he has drawn it on me.” As he passes Frank The Third Man adds in a much
icier and menacing tone, “Once that has happened he will no longer have need of
one.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And then The Third Man and his associates
are gone. Ray is dumbfounded by his friend’s performance and ability to make a
deal that literally saved his life. He notices the bead of sweat is still
dangling from Frank’s left earlobe. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“That
was a close call buddy; I really owe you big time.” Ray releases his fear as relief
and he rises from the chair. Frank, standing in front of him swings and lands
his right fist on Ray’s left cheek. Ray stumbles back into the chair as Frank
leans over him.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank takes Ray to the woodshed, “Jesus
Ray, when are you going to grow up and be an adult? I don’t even want to know
what kind of scheme led you to do business with someone like The Third Man, nor
do I want to know how you would even know such a dirt bag. I will tell you one
thing; you are going to repay every dime, plus my standard fee for the work I
do in extricating Jumpy from his troubles. But listen to me closely Ray, if you
ever do anything like this again I will not bail you out, don’t even ask. Next
time you can wind up at the bottom of the lake wearing the latest fashion in
cement over-shoes. You got me Ray?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray sheepishly answers his friend, “Yeah,
Frank, I got you.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank walks towards the door, and before
he reaches it, turns his head and sarcastically says, “Better get some ice Ray;
it looks like you have a little boo-boo there.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He hated being so rough on his friend, but as
the song goes; <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">you gotta be cruel to be
kind</i>. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray sits in his chair and feels the sting
of Frank’s anger, it hurts more than the physical ones inflicted by The Third Man
and his goons, but he knows he deserves them all. Sitting in the chair with
swollen eyes and lips, and an ache in his stomach that is more than just
physical, Ray reflects on what has just transpired. With tears welling up in
his eyes he drifts off to sleep.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor sits next to his friend and
doctor on the long drive between the fifth green and the sixth tee. The
exceptionally long trek between holes gives him time to reflect upon The Third
Man episode.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It seemed to be the modus operandi of
Ray’s existence, whether it was a career, family, or a woman; he just lacked
the ability to allow consistency into his life. As much as the entirety of his
being screamed out for him to remain on a path that led to happiness, he
refused it in favor of the unknown.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His relationship with Elizabeth is very
much apropos of the positive aspects of his relationship with the last woman
with whom Ray was in love. Not that he was in love with Elizabeth in the
romantic sense, nor could their relationship be called <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">long term</i>. After all, he was dying and she was his guide to
whatever came next. But in another time and place, Ray thought:<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor sits in an overstuffed armchair with
his feet up on an ottoman stroking the furry orange cat in his lap. He hears
the front door open, “It must be mommy coming home.” he says soothingly to the
cat. He then turns towards the door, “How was your day babe?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She looks lovingly into his eyes and
answers his query with a kiss, “I’m glad to be home with you.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Are you talking to me or the cat?” Ray chides
her. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Well of course the cat.” she answers
sarcastically. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They both laugh as he replaces the kitty
in his lap with his wife. As he holds his wife in his arms and soothes away the
stress of her job, Ray tries to remember how long they have been together. Time
means little when one is with the person he loves, ten years or thirty, they
are the same. All that exists is the two traveling the road together. Time
neither drags or speeds, it just exists, with the two filling in the spaces
with their love for each other.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray knows better than to press Elizabeth
about her day with the dying, years of marriage have taught him that much. She
will share those details with him in her own time, or maybe she will keep them
to herself. He was there to love her and she to love him, nothing else
mattered. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was winter when they met and the next
when they married. Ray never had much luck with relationships; that is until
Elizabeth. It always felt as though he was in a deep and unforgiving sand trap
when it came to love. Then like magic his ball flies from the trap and lands on
the green and rolls into the cup. That is how it is with Elizabeth; he has
finally achieved a completeness he has never known.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray drifts off to sleep in the golf cart
in which he is riding thinking about what could have been and is suddenly
jerked back to Eagle’s Knob as the cart <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>pulls up and stops at the sixth tee.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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</span><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chapter 9<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Reading the Green<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>To many golfers one of the toughest parts
of the game is reading greens. That is the ability to perceive the sometimes
slight, and sometimes more obvious, undulations and slopes in the surface of
the green between the player’s ball and the hole. When done correctly it is the
perfect marriage of geometry and positive and negative acceleration. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Putting is the most allusive of all golf
skills precisely because every green is different, and in fact, every green has
a thousand variations depending on the position of one’s ball on the surface.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Geometry and the principles of acceleration
are the furthest things from Ray Taylor’s mind as he and his golf companions
approach the sixth green at Eagle’s Knob. All three are on the green, although
the doctor has the best chance at par, being within six feet of the hole and
laying three on this par-four hole.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray’s ball is the furthest from the hole,
a good thirty feet, after having flubbed his approach shot. Ray stands behind
his ball dangling his putter in front of him in an attempt to read the surface
of the green. So much of golf depends on the minute and slight variations of
the lay of the land upon which the green is constructed. And a golfer’s ability
to perceive the subtle can determine the difference between a good and bad
score on a hole.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Perceiving the subtle has never been Ray
Taylor’s strength, on or off the golf course. There has always been a
disinterested detachment in the way he lived his life. It is as if he was a
spectator in his own existence, instead of an active participant. Most of Ray’s
time on this earth he has felt like a leaf floating down a stream without much
control over where he went or at what speed.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was as if Ray was watching himself in a
movie. No matter how loudly he screamed at the image of himself on the screen,
it mattered little to his two-dimensional self. It plowed ahead unfettered in
bad decision-making.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It was that way in his mid-twenties when
he left his sales job, sold all of his earthly possessions at the time except
his guitar and his golf clubs, and moved to Nashville with a thousand dollars
in a bank envelope. He knew it was a bad idea, and yet he was unable to read
the green that was between where he was and where his immediate future would ultimately
take him.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray knew little, if anything at all, about
where he was going. With no preparations like researching the job or housing
markets in Nashville, he packed his car and took off; leaving all his problems
and troubles at the time behind him, or so he thought. But a man cannot run
from his troubles without running headlong into them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He got into town and found the nastiest, dirtiest,
and filthiest part of Nashville; this is where Ray Taylor made his new home. He
rented a depressed and roach-infested little room with a closet-sized bath and
a single bed in the living room. It did not take Ray long to fall in league
with the desperate souls that inhabit the less glamorous environs of Nashville.
<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is an early morning barroom that Ray
enters with his guitar in hand; he sits down on a stool and orders a beer. It
is a time of day that only third-shifters, alcoholics, and the unemployed are
drinking. The bartender serves Ray a beer and then mockingly asks, “Do you play
that thing, or just carry it around for effect?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As if that bartender has not seen a
thousand Ray Taylors over the years he has slung drinks at the bottom of the
Nashville music scene. But Ray misses the sarcasm and thinks the bartender is
being genuine about wanting to hear him play. Before the bartender can tell him
otherwise, Ray takes his instrument out of its case and begins playing “You Are
My Sunshine.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Halfway through the first chorus a man
with a trumpet begins to accompany him, and shortly thereafter another man adds
his banjo licks to the mix. The performance is rounded out by a woman at the
bar who contributes harmony to Ray’s vocals. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When
the foursome finishes Ray asks the bartender, “What do you think?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As the bartender wipes the top of the bar
without looking up, he blithely answers, “I hate that song.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray is deeply offended and leaves in a
huff.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>Ray’s next adventure misreading the green before him is in befriending a
sixty year old man who claims to be a professional prize-fighter from the
1950s. Mike shows Ray pictures of a young man in boxing trunks, wearing boxing
gloves, and striking a pose as if he were in the ring with an aggressive
opponent. The young man bears a resemblance to old Mike; to someone looking for
a way out of his old life and into a new one like Ray, it does not really
matter if it is true, Ray <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">wants </i>to
believe it is.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Old Mike lives in a worse place than Ray
has rented. What Ray fails to see is that Mike is looking for a way out as
well. He is just biding his time in that roach-infested motel room until an
easy mark like Ray came along. Some sap with a few bucks, of which Mike could
relieve him to finance his trip out of that God forsaken town.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Mike convinces Ray that he is still
well-connected to major players in the fight world and he can set Ray up in the
fight-promotion business. He was going to set Ray up alright, not with a
lucrative career, but with heart-ache and poverty. Mike cons Ray out of a
hundred bucks to, in his words, “Impress this player,” he knows in town by, “prying
him with a good meal.” Oh, and he also convinces Ray to let him use his car,
Ray’s most valuable possession at the time.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Mike wrecks Ray’s car and leaves it on the
side of the road, which is where the police find it and subsequently have it
towed to the impound lot. Ray is without his car in a strange city and $200
poorer from the impound fees in addition to the hundred he had given Mike, who disappears
without a trace.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A
reasonable person would have gone back home at this point, but Ray is not done misreading
the green before him. He takes comfort in the arms of a woman who shows
interest in him at the bar.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The pair takes a wild ride in a rented car
through the worst part of Nashville in order to “hook-up” with a friend of hers
who can get them some coke; cocaine that is. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray sits in a rundown apartment in a
public housing development while his new friend is in the other room making a
deal. He does not dare move from the torn, stained, and putridly smelly sofa
which the rather large gentleman has told him to occupy while he and Amanda make
a deal for the coke.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A pair of pit bulls keeps a watch on Ray,
using low rumbling growls to limit Ray’s movements. What seems like an eternity
passes before Amanda comes out of the other room and asks Ray for a hundred and
fifty bucks for the “stuff.” A few minutes later she returns and demands,
“Let’s go.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The two lost souls ride the asphalt
tributaries that flow through some of the best and worst sections of Nashville;
their specious sojourn fueled by the white powder they freely stuff up their
noses. They laugh at the swells in Oak Hills and mock the homeless in the damp
and lonely alleys and dirty vignettes of downtown Nashville, eventually falling
asleep in Ray’s hovel around daybreak. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When Ray wakes up later in the day he
finds no trace of Amanda, or the rest of his money that he had so carelessly
left on top of the dresser. Ray hocks his golf clubs in a local pawn shop; its
walls festooned with broken dreams in the form of guitars, banjos, and other
musical instruments. He uses the money to buy a bus ticket back home.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray
leaves Nashville with just his guitar and a couple bags of clothes, like some
bad cliché one would only find in a country song. He chain-smokes cigarettes as
he waits in the Greyhound station at the other end for Frank to pick him up. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“How was Nashville?” Frank asks knowingly.
<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Don’t ask.” Ray answers dejectedly. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank drives Ray to his mother’s house where
he is to stay until he can right himself again.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray strikes his ball with his putter. It
rolls towards the hole and then catches a wicked break five feet from the cup
that Ray did not see. The ball keeps rolling and ends its misadventure off the
front edge of the green.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray smiles a painful smile and thinks,
“Well that’s par for the course.” Again he has not seen the breaks and dangers
that lay before him. His hasty choice has put him in a worse position; just as
it had with the Nashville decision so many years prior.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chapter 10<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Improving Your Lie<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A player of golf will sometimes move his
ball around with his club head in order to place it on top of the grass or move
it off a patch of dirt. This activity is called <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">improving your lie.</i></span><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"> <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The professional golfer never improves his
lie. In fact, according to the rules that govern professional golf, he cannot even
remove any twigs, leaves, or other debris from around his ball. He must play it
as it lies.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor and his friends are not
professional golfers, so when Ray’s drive on the par-three seventh hole at
Eagle’s Knob rolls on top of some dirt, he gently coxes it onto a patch of
grass using the club head of his pitching wedge.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray swings at his ball and it shanks
horribly to the right. Improving one’s lie does not always guarantee a positive
outcome. This has been true for Ray both on and off the golf course.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Many times Ray has tried to improve his
lie; from career choices to investment decisions. Ray seemed to have a knack
for not parlaying a better lie into a better outcome for his life. He
especially has done himself no favors when it comes to relationships, choosing for
the most part to avoid the sometimes messy entanglements of the romantic kind. Yet
at the same time longing for the stability and oneness they can bring.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray approached romantic relationships like
a gambler, always thinking the next hand was going to be the “big hand.” He was
never satisfied to walk away from the table with the winnings he had
accumulated, he always wanted more. Like a drug addict who always thought the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">next</i> high would be the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">best</i> high; this is the way in which Ray
Taylor had approached romantic relationships. And just like an addiction, it
had left him alone for most of his adult life. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor’s behavior of fleeing a romance
like one would flee a burning building was never more on display than it was in
his relationship with Margaret. She was a kind and funny woman who Ray enjoyed
being around. He is not quite sure why they ended their intimate life together.
Ray determined it was his inability to commit in any meaningful way. But he
once again had not improved his life after having improved his lie.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>They seemed to have a rhythm to their
relationship, like two musicians who played the same tune. They liked many of
the same things and always had plenty to laugh about whenever they were
together. And even after they had broken off their romantic relationship they
had remained best friends.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Margaret was the one who helped Ray find
and hire Elizabeth when his illness had progressed to a stage where he needed
in-home care. Ray gently smiles as he recalls the two women hitting it off
right from the start, with Margaret telling Elizabeth, “If he gives you any
trouble I am just a phone call away, and I will come right over and swat his snout
with a rolled up newspaper.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth does not miss a beat as she
joins in the fun at Ray’s expense, “Oh mam, you don’t have to worry about that,
I have had to deal with more than my fair share of cranky old men.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Who are you calling a cranky old man?”
Ray desperately struggles against the odds of winning this battle with these
two women. “Watch your P’s and Q’s,” Ray adds, “I can let you go as easily as I
have retained you.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Somehow Elizabeth knows even at this early
stage that Ray has no such intentions. Maybe it is the jesting lilt in his
tone, or maybe it is the support she feels from Margaret. Elizabeth knows she
is there for the duration as she turns to Margaret and answers Ray’s challenge,
“Maybe I will need that rolled up newspaper sooner rather than later.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The three new friends, thrown together by
a fatal illness carried by one of them, laugh together at the jovial banter.
But the undercurrent which would remain through the end of their earthly
friendship persisted from the beginning. Elizabeth knew her relationship with
Ray was limited, just as it was with all her patients. Both Ray and Margaret
knew likewise. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor shakes his head as if he is
trying to remove the past from his mind and replace it with the present. Which
at this moment has him spending two more shots on this relatively easy par-three
to land his ball on the green about twenty feet from the hole. He is already
lying four and would consider it a moral victory if he could leave this hole
with a double-bogie. No easy task considering that means he has to sink this
twenty foot putt.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray thinks about his shanked second shot
and how it placed him in peril on this hole. But more importantly he begins to
think about how he has been placed in peril by the shanks he has committed in
his <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">life</i> after having improved his
lie. Once again those shaken thoughts of the past return.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor cannot imagine that his
windfall made possible by a profitable part–time Internet gig could “shank” so
badly. He was in his forties before he made a serious effort to save for his
eventual retirement. An extra couple of grand a month was just what Ray needed
to help catch up. And catch up is exactly what he did, managing to increase his
wealth from thoroughly pathetic to just mildly pathetic in a relatively short
period of time.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But Ray wanted more wealth faster. His
desperation to increase his lagging retirement account, bridled with his
addictive personality, made him a perfect candidate for trading stock options. An
activity that is more closely associated with the behavior of a gambler than it
is with the behavior of a wise investor.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>But Ray Taylor was not one to learn his
lessons easily, nor was he one to give up on the feeling that the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">next one</i> would be the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">big one</i>. He kept thinking he would “win”
back all his losses with just “one good score.” Ray did have some “big scores,”
it is what made him keep shoveling his money into the options furnace.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>All the while he was deep in the blood
fever of trading options, Ray was sitting in that theater watching himself and
screaming at the screen to stop. He screamed when two-dimensional Ray lost ten
grand, and then twenty grand, and he screamed even louder when two-dimensional Ray
lost twice that much and more. All the hard work of saving (the “improving his
lie”) was made null and void by his terrible shank of trying to “get rich
quick.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray looks over his putt on the seventh
green at Eagle’s Knob and wonders how he could have played his previous shots
differently to have resulted in a better outcome. From the vantage point of
twenty thousand feet Ray can now see clearly how he could have avoided the
shank of his investment debacle. He strikes his ball and it rolls towards the
hole and comes to rest about three feet from the cup.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He sinks the putt for a triple bogie six.
Once again improving his lie does not translate into a better outcome for
Raymond Taylor. He wonders why the bane of his existence seems to be his own
lack of control and discipline.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chapter 11<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Eagle<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth removes Ray’s bedding from the
dryer and fluffs the sheets gently. She folds them neatly and methodically as
if she is providing medical attention to a delicate baby bird that has broken
its wing.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She places the folded pile of bedding at
the foot of Ray’s stripped bed and smoothes the top of them with her hand. She is
transported by her memory to just a couple of days prior as she sat in a chair at
Ray Taylor’s bedside while she carefully filed his fingernails.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>It is one of the little extras that
Elizabeth provides her patients. And she would often say, “There is no reason
the dying should have to suffer badly manicured nails.” It was a small thing,
like the fresh cut flowers she would sometimes bring to brighten the room, or
the little gifts she found that would bring a smile to her patients’ faces.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray gently takes Elizabeth’s hand in his and
he speaks quietly as he stares into a space in the room beyond Elizabeth.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The quality of mercy is not strained. It droppeth from heaven like <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></i></span></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Gentle rain on the places
below; it is twice blessed, it blesseth he who <o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray turns his full gaze back towards
Elizabeth and states matter- of-fact, “Shakespeare.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yes, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The
Merchant of Venice</i>.” Elizabeth adds. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Do you think God will bless me with his
mercy Elizabeth?” Ray ponders more than asks. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth gently pats his hand
reassuringly and says, “I think he already has.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray looks into the gentle face of this
woman who has come to know him in the very worst time of his life and responds,
“Yes, I guess He has.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Elizabeth, still standing at the foot of
Ray’s bed with her hand on the stack of sheets softly whispers, “Good-bye Ray.”
For she knows he will not return to use them. It is a bond that sometimes exists
between the dying and those that care for the dying; the latter can feel the
former’s exit from this earthly life even if they are not with them at the
moment of their departure.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor drifts off to sleep as the golf
cart in which he is riding rolls towards the eighth tee at Eagle’s Knob; a
short par-five of about 450 yards. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Ray! Ray! Are you okay?” he hears his
friend John Lafferty say with a great amount of concern. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah, just catching a few Z’s” Ray
answers his friend.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“We don’t have to finish.” Frank says walking
up to the cart. He can see his friend is looking much worse than when they
began the round and does not want to exhaust him further. “Maybe you should
save your energy.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray sits up in the seat, places the last
remaining inches of his cigar in his mouth, takes a drag, and answers, “You’d
like that, just when I’m about to catch you?” he adds, “Besides, I have been
saving my energy for the last year for this, there <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">is </i>nothing else.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray swings his legs out of the cart,
places his cigar in the cup holder on the cart, and attempts to stand. He
stumbles a bit but catches himself just as his friends move to his aid. He
wobbles to the tee, once again using his club as a cane with which to steady
himself.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray, looking as wobbly as Charlie Chaplin
mid-comedic routine, swings at his ball and nearly falls. The ball jets through
the air high and straight. It lands in the middle of the fairway approximately
250 yards from the tee box.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Your best drive of the day!” Dr. Lafferty
says with an excitement in his voice that is rare for him. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Best drive of the day? The best drive of
your life. You really nailed it Ray!” adds Frank. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray stumbles back to the cart, mundanely
countering his friends’ excited analysis of his drive, “It’ll play.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Both
John and Frank manage good drives, but as Frank states, “Ray’s drive makes ours
look like turds in comparison.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The good doctor nods in agreement.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray lofts his second shot into the air and
it lands about forty yards from the green and seems to roll forever as the
threesome watch it with anticipation. The ball makes the green and rolls to
within thirty feet of the cup. “Look at this guy,” Frank says jealously,
“within a putt of an eagle.” An Eagle is two strokes under par for the hole.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Thanks
for jinxing me; you dick.” Ray scolds his friend. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Well you should at least get a birdie.”
John Lafferty says, adding his two cents. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Et tu Brutus.” Ray responds. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Both Frank and John get on the green in
four.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray looks at his ball’s position from both
sides of the hole and then takes his position over it. He stands there,
alternately looking from his ball to the cup. It seems as though he
contemplates the putt for hours, and then strokes the ball with his putter. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The ball rolls smoothly across the green
and slants away from the hole to Ray’s left, then it catches a small undulation
in the surface of the green and realigns itself straight at the hole and drops
into the center of the cup.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The three erupt with a cheer that would
wake the dead. High fives and fist bumps are coming towards Ray faster than he
can return them. His friends fall to their knees in front of him and bow, chanting
in unison, “All hail eagle-man.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray smiles, turns, and walks slowly back to
the cart. He picks up the worn butt of his cigar and takes a big puff. He
thinks to himself: <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">the mercy of God
sometimes takes the form of small things, like sinking an eagle putt on the
eighth green at Eagle’s Knob.</i> He wonders how many times in his life he has
not appreciated such merciful moments.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor smiles as he recalls the day
that fate and Chester L. intervened in his life to pull him from the brink of
an abyss not only comprised of financial ruin, but of a deep emotional
depression.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray sits
on one of the knob-shaped barstools at the bar in the Eagle’s Knob clubhouse.
His two friends, John Lafferty and Frank Godles, sit on either side of him. The
threesome has just completed a round of golf and now imbibes cold beers and chows
down on deli sandwiches, an item for which Eagle’s Knob is famous. They consist
of fresh baked bread made by a baker employed by Chester L. and are stacked
high with only the freshest deli meats and crispy lettuce and firm tomato. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Man, did I stink it up out there today.
My golf game is as bad as my employment prowess of late.” Ray blurts out in a
subdued and almost depressed tone. Ray Taylor is in a familiar position, one
which he has occupied much too often in his life; he is unemployed.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Often times the most productive change is
that which circumstance forces upon us. There is something better for you out
there Ray, I can just <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">feel i</i>t.”
Doctor Lafferty says as if he is giving medical advice to a sick patient. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah Ray, maybe you can become a professional
whiner.” His other friend, Frank Godles, states unsympathetically. But his
terse and seemingly callous remark actually comes from a place of great
consternation. He does not want to encourage his friend’s downward spiral into
depression. Frank is a firm believer that sometimes the best hand up is a swift
kick in the ass.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Before Ray has a chance to return Frank’s
caustic remark, Chester L. walks up behind the threesome and greets them with
hearty slaps on the backs, “How was the golf today guys?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Well I will answer your query this way
Chester L.;” Frank takes the liberty of responding for the group, “a bad day on
the golf course still beats a good day at work.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chuckling politely at Frank’s comment
which he has now heard at least a thousand times in the years running Eagle’s
Knob, Chester L. turns and places his hand on Ray’s shoulder and asks, “Hey
Ray, you still looking for a job?”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Does the Pope defecate in the woods? Is
the bear Catholic?” Ray responds jokingly. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I am not privy to the Pontiff’s
scatological habits, or any religious affiliation of the bear.” Chester L.
states seriously and continues, “See that gentleman over at that table?”
Chester L. asks Ray, pointing to a lone figure at one of the tables in the dining
area of the Eagle’s Knob club house. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah, what about him?” Ray asks, sounding
almost annoyed. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“He is Bill Ross, the Superintendent of
schools. I happen to know he is looking to fill a maintenance position at one
of the schools in the district. You interested?” Chester L. says, undeterred by
Ray’s blasé attitude. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray manages a disinterested sounding,
“Sure.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chester L. saunters over to Superintendent
Ross’s table with Ray Taylor in tow. Ray feels like a child being taken to the
doctor’s office by his mother. But if it gets him a job he would be willing to hold
Chester L.’s rather large calloused hand on the way over. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chester L. offers the Superintendent one
of his hearty greetings that are a staple at Eagle’s Knob, “Bill, how’s the
golf game?” Bill Ross is startled as he looks up, as if he was lost in thought
and did not see his visitors approaching<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Just great Chester L.,” Bill begins to
answer as he places the fork in his hand beside the plate of salad he was eating,
“that advice you gave me about my grip on the club controlling the fade and
draw of the ball has really been paying off.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I’m glad to have helped, we’ll have to
play a round soon. Bill I want you to meet Raymond Taylor,” Chester L. gets
right to the point of his and Ray’s intrusion on Superintendent Ross’s lunch,
“he’s the guy I was telling you about that might be a good fit for that
position you have open. It is still open isn’t it?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Superintendent Ross still seated but
shaking Ray’s hand answers, “Yes, yes it is. Well Ray it is nice to meet you,
Chester L. here has told me many good things about you.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah well,” Ray quips as if he is out
with friends instead of meeting a perspective employer, “he doesn’t know where
all the dead bodies are buried.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Bill Ross looks at Ray inquisitively, as if
he is studying the results of a science experiment. He then decides Ray’s
comment was an attempt at using a little humor to mitigate the tension he must
be feeling. In the ensuing years as his employee Ray would learn the true
insightfulness of his employer. Bill seemed to have a true gift for separating
the grain from the chaff and looking deep into the true character of a man. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Well you two don’t need me hanging around,
and I have a million things to do.” Chester L. says as he walks away from the
table. Ray turns his head in the direction of the exiting Chester L. and feels
like a child being left at the school door on the first day of class.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Bill Ross continues with Ray still standing,
“How do you like teenagers Ray?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Medium to medium rare, otherwise they can
be a little dry and stringy.” Ray involuntarily responds as if he is still on
the golf course with John and Frank. The words are still streaming from his
mouth as he again is sitting in that theater watching himself on the screen and
unable to stop the two-dimensional Ray.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Some perspective employers may have found
a gentle way to end the interview. But Bill Ross looks into Ray’s eyes; he is
one who truly can use them as windows to the soul. He sees a good and decent
man in Ray Taylor who has just put himself in the rough too often in his life.
He considers the position he has available, maintenance man at the local high
school. He thinks to himself that Ray might be just what the students need and
they may be just what he needs at this time in his life.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Why don’t you have a seat Ray and we’ll
talk. Would you like a beverage or something?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray shakes his head in the negative and
manages a “No thanks.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>And so begins a relationship of
employer-employee, but also a friendship that would endure for the remainder of
Ray’s life. As much as anyone in his life, Bill Ross was responsible for
shaping, molding, and deepening Ray’s soul. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>That day in the clubhouse, at one of the
lowest points in his life, Ray Taylor found the blessing of God’s mercy. Something
he would not think about as such until the eagle putt on the 8th hole at
Eagle’s Knob.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Chapter 12<o:p></o:p></b></span></span></div>
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</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span></b><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Adding Up the Scores<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There comes that time in every round of
golf, somewhere around the finish of the eighth hole and the beginning of the
ninth, when the players add up their scores thus far. This is the time for
self-recrimination about the bad shots, missed opportunities, and
miscalculations of the previous eight holes. It is also the time to relive the
long drives, close chips, and awesome putts of the previous eight holes as
well.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For Ray Taylor, who is on the express
train to the next stop in existence, there is neither the time nor the
inclination to dwell on past glories and failures. For Ray there is only the
next, the last hole. For Ray knows this ninth hole at Eagle’s Knob, on this
beautiful sunny day, in the company of his best friends, is not just the last
of this round, but the last of his earthly existence.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As
the two electric golf carts steel silently<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>up to the ninth tee box at Eagle’s Knob, Frank Godles states the
obvious, “Well this is it fellers, the ninth hole.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John Lafferty jumps from the cart he has
just parked and walks around the back of it to where his and Ray’s clubs are
secured, “Well I think I am going to use my three-wood and lay up in front of
the water.” he analytically proffers his strategy. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The ninth hole at Eagle’s Knob is a par-four
with a twenty foot wide chasm of water running the entire width of the fairway.
To carry one’s ball over the water, a drive of about 240 yards is needed. Most
players “lay up” in front of the water since a second shot is going to be
required anyway, and there is no sense in risking the possibility of placing
one’s drive in the creek.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John begins to walk to the tee box and
realizes Ray has yet to exit the cart. “Hey Ray, you playing this hole?” the good
doctor chides. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Yeah, I’m just savoring this <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">last </i>hole.” Ray answers his golf
companion and friend. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John nods, smiles, and continues to the
tee. He has just now fully realized that for Frank and him this round is
different than it is for Ray. Their pleasure of the game will continue into subsequent
rounds. But for Ray, an avid golfer, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">this</i>
is the final hole of his life. It is seldom in life that one knows an event
will be the last time one participates in that event. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There is a finality and somberness to it
that only the individual going through it can comprehend. And that is why, John
Lafferty being a good friend, leaves his dying friend to his private thoughts
on this solemn occasion as he joins Frank in the tee box where the pair waits
patiently.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray slowly makes his way to the ninth tee
box, having gotten the eagle on the last hole he is first up on the tee for the
ninth. Frank sticks a tee in the ground and John gingerly places Ray’s ball on
top of it. <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The last drive </i>Ray thinks to
himself. He hopes he has one more good drive left in him. He contemplates the
ball for half a minute or so and then swings his driver.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The ball floats into the air and fades to
the right. It lands about 185 yards from the tee in the rough on that side of
the fairway. Not a great shot, but the hole is wide open, and being in the
right rough is not going to hurt Ray much. He should have a decent lie over
there, and with a good second shot he could still make par.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Not a bad position Ray,” Frank says
reassuringly, “you gotta hit a second shot anyway and at least now you’ve taken
the water out of play.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray, lumbering away from the tee answers
his friend with a non-verbal “thumbs up.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray reflects on the many thousands of holes
of golf he has played, and how he was always in a rush to get to the next. He
drank rapaciously from what he thought was a bottomless vessel of golf holes.
He enjoyed the game of golf without really enjoying each hole. He seldom lived
in the presence of the current hole and experienced it fully. It was a lesson
from his mother that had taken almost his entire life to learn.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Raymond Taylor sits on the edge of his bed
plucking his guitar in a very disinterested manner. The guitar is not foremost
in his mind. He has just returned from a short stint on his own, only a couple
of days away staying with various friends after having left home in the wake of
a fight with his father. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“So you’re back. Have you made your
fortune with that thing yet?” Ray Sr. says as he enters the room and greets his
prodigal son with his own signature sarcasm. “Next time you will not be
welcomed back into this house.” his father adds in a more grave tone. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Oh was that a welcome,” Raymond shoots
back sardonically, “I must have missed the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">well</i>
part.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Sr. crosses the room and points his
finger at his son, “Don’t be a smart-ass. You know, that is your problem
Raymond. You take nothing or no one seriously except your own thoughts. Hopefully,
before it’s too late you will someday learn that life is not about the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">want-tos</i> but the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">have-tos</i>.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray picks the strings on his guitar with
his head hanging over the top of the instrument. His father walks out of the
room, frustrated at his inability to reach his son. Maybe, he thinks, his son
is just a little too much like himself. No matter how hard the senior Taylor
tries to save his son from the inequities of his<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> own </i>character flaws, he knows that they will cause 16 year old Ray
to walk a path littered with bumps, holes, and drop offs that he will have to find
a way to navigate…or not.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray’s mother enters his room and sits on
the bed beside her troubled son. She gently strokes his long wavy hair with her
hand. It is a hand that cooks meals, cleans the house, washes and mends clothes,
and even has meted out punishment from time to time. But right now it is a hand
of understanding and compassion, Mrs. Taylor’s most practiced and
well-developed skills. Ray considers her a saint, if for no other reason than
putting up with his father for so many years.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>She sits for a minute or two and then
speaks, “Ray, don’t wish your life away. Don’t live in the desires of the
future or the regrets of the past, just live in the present. It is really all
any of us really have. Enjoy God’s gifts today.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Gifts, what gifts?” her petulant child
demands to know. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“How about the gift of having enough food
to eat, clothes on your back, and a family that loves you. There are billions
of people in the world who would gladly trade places with you.” Mrs. Taylor
enumerates her son’s gifts and continues, “The gift of having all your fingers
to play that instrument and make beautiful music. You have many gifts and
blessings; it is a sin against God to ignore them as if they don’t exist. Think
about it Ray.” she kisses his forehead as only a mother can and then adds, “I
love you Ray.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor stands in the right rough on
the number nine hole at Eagle’s Knob, surveying his ball’s lie in the grass. It
is a pretty decent lie and by his calculations borne of many years estimating
yardage, he guesses he has about sixty yards to carry the water and about 200
yards or so to make the green; still a bit of a poke.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray takes a few practice swings with his
three-wood and then addresses his ball. For the first time in his life he
understands what his mother was trying to tell him all those years ago. It is
not the big events in one’s life that create the mosaic of their earthly
existence, but all the individual tiles that fit together to complete the
whole. Without <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">them</i> there would be no
image, no life, nothing. It is as if each sometimes banal event in a person’s
life plays an equal role to the more spectacular events in creating the
totality of that life. There is no round of golf without each individual shot.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray smiles at his belated epiphany and
swings his club. His ball sails through the air straight as an arrow and lands
about twenty yards in front of the green. He’ll take it, he thinks to himself
in relief. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Nice shot Ray.” John says as he hits his
ball into the water. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank has already landed his second shot
on the green, “Yeah, but not quite as nice as mine though. But if that’s the
best you can do Ray it’ll do just fine.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray turns towards his boasting friend and
gives him a hearty one finger salute. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“You’re just jealous.” Frank responds
verbally to the non-verbal insult from his friend. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The two carts roll up to the edge of the
water where the good doctor finally puts his ball on the green, lying four
after the penalty stroke for putting his second shot into the water.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The sun is shining brightly as the two
carts carrying the three friends roll up beside the ninth green at Eagle’s
Knob. John and Frank both walk to the green to examine the position of their
balls relative to the hole. Ray walks slowly and wobbly to his ball just twenty
yards off the front edge of the green.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray Taylor now looks at his friends standing
on the green, leaning against their putters, and waiting for the final member
of this threesome to chip his ball onto the putting surface. He looks at the
blue sky and the leaves on the trees dancing gently to the quiet music of the breeze.
<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>His friends’ voices seem somewhat
distorted, and he cannot determine if that is because they are talking to each
other in low tones, or if they are addressing him and he is just not able to understand
their words.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray speaks, but even his own words seem
foreign to him. Ray takes a couple of practice swings next to his ball,
wobbling as he does. He thinks to himself he will be glad to complete this
round. He is exhausted and ready for rest. Golf is joy and disappointment,
success and failure, spectacle and commonplace, and exhilaration and exhaustion.
Right now, for Raymond Taylor on his way to eternity, whatever that means, golf
stands as a barrier to the warm embrace of home. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>He swings his club and his ball arches
into the air and lands on the green about twenty feet from the cup. The ball
rolls towards the hole and sidles up to the edge of the cup and drops in. The
ball makes that hollow thunk golfers love to hear as it hits the bottom of the
cup. Suddenly Ray’s eyes are sealed shut from a bright white light, brighter
and more pure white than he has ever experienced. He struggles to reopen his
eyes but everything suddenly goes to black.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p><span style="font-family: "calibri";"> </span></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chapter 13<o:p></o:p></span></span></b></div>
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<span style="font-size: 24pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The Rain Delay<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Approximately a five minute walk from the
clubhouse at Eagle’s Knob, nestled among a grove of pine trees is a small
chapel. Chester L. had it built in memory of his late wife who passed away five
years prior after she lost her struggle with liver cancer.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Her name was Janine, but everyone called
her Eaglet. She and Chester L. were inseparable, whether they were at home or
at Eagle’s Knob attending to the thousands of details associated with running
the golf course and club house. Long term employees would often say they never
heard either say a cross word to the other, no matter how hectic things became.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Most mornings just before sunrise, and
prior to the chaos of arriving golfers wanting tee times, one can witness
Chester L. slowly walking down the stone path to the chapel. He stays inside
for fifteen to twenty minutes before returning to the clubhouse to begin his
busy day as master of ceremonies at the course he built.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>On this morning, the morning of Ray
Taylor’s memorial service, Chester L. is personally supervising the kitchen
staff preparing the private reception dinner to be held after the service. He
is also managing the golfers already arriving, not for the service which is
limited by the size of the chapel to around twenty persons, but to participate
in a round of golf in honor of Ray Taylor. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John Lafferty and Frank Godles are picking
up the tab for everyone’s golf, and Chester L. in turn is donating the money to
hospice care for the dying. Additionally he is supplying Monties to anyone who
wishes to partake. Most of the golfers attending will be making their own cash
donations in clearly marked receptacles for that purpose. The receptacles are
of course in the shape of Chester L.’s invention.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John Lafferty and Frank Godles walk the
number thirteen fairway at Eagle’s Knob. It is a long and beautifully landscaped
par 5, rated one of the top five in the state. Ray often said that if the
legend about Jack Nicklaus designing one of the holes at Eagle’s Knob was true,
he would put his money on it being number 13.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The two remaining friends of the trio walk
slowly, smoking cigars and swapping stories about their departed friend. They
stop at a bench located halfway down the length of the fairway and which sets
among scattered wood chips under a huge oak tree in the right rough.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Is this new?” asks Frank. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Chester L. must have just recently had it
installed. Isn’t this where Ray…” John stops mid-sentence. What he started to
say but didn’t have to finish because he and his companion both knew without
saying, was this was the same spot that Ray always seem to hit his second shot
on the thirteenth.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The two men see the plaque at the same
moment: <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">To the memory of Ray Taylor, a guy who
played life in the rough <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></i></span></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>but never
stopped trying to improve his lie. We shall miss you <o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>dearly my
friend. <o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-family: "calibri";"><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span></span></i><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">Frank speaks
first, “That must have been why Chester L.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>insisted we walk thirteen.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John, rubbing a tear from the corner of
his eye adds, “That sneaky bastard, remind me to give him a swift kick in the
nuts when we return.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There is silence while the two men hold
back their tears. They sit on the bench and smoke their cigars. After what
seems like an eternity, Frank breaks the silence, “Tell Ray when you see him I
am pissed that he left me here alone with you.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John incredulously responds, “What makes
you think I will see him before you do? You are most likely to be the next to
go.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Why is that?” queries Frank. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I am a doctor, a man of science.” the
good doctor boasts. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“So what does that have to do with
anything?” Frank begins his rebuttal, “John Adams, a lawyer, lived a longer
life than Ben Franklin, a man of science.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The two men sit in silence while they
finish their cigars and then John stands up slowly, “Well I guess we should be
heading to the chapel.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“I suppose you’re right.” Frank, now
standing, says to his remaining friend. The two embrace and walk slowly towards
the chapel.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>There is a wood scroll over the door of the
Eagle’s Knob chapel which reads:<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">To the memory of Janine “Eaglet”
Eagle.<o:p></o:p></i></span></span></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>May all who enter these doors drink from<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>the gentle spirit of her loving
soul.<o:p></o:p></span></span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As Frank Godles holds open the chapel door
for his friend they are met with the site of early arrivals to Ray Taylor’s
memorial service. To one side of the room they see Margaret talking to Ray’s
Daughter Brittany and Superintendent Bill Ross. On the other side of the room,
seated in a chair and being attended by the always-on-duty healthcare worker
Elizabeth, is Ray’s mother. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>The two men head straight for the matriarch
of the Taylor family. “Mrs. Taylor,” John begins, “I am so sorry for your
loss.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“As I am for yours.” Mrs. Taylor
reciprocates. “You know, a parent should never outlive their child.” she adds. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Speaking for myself, my life would have
seen less happiness and light without the friendship of your son.” Frank says
as he gently takes the old woman’s hand in his. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Funny, Ray use to say the same thing
about you two. He loved you both deeply.” Mrs. Taylor responds sympathetically.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“Look,” John says as he leans in towards
Ray’s mother, “I…I mean both of us,” as he waves his hand in the direction of
Frank, “are very sorry about taking Ray out to the course that day. And me a
doctor should have known better.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Before Mrs. Taylor can answer, Elizabeth
intercedes, “You shouldn’t be…sorry that is. I can’t think of a better way for
Ray to have exited from this earthly life than being with you two, playing the
game he loved.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray’s mother nods in agreement and then adds,
“You know, Ray Sr. always said he wanted to die on the golf course. Fate
conspired against him when it had him languishing in that nursing home the last
18 months of his life. Sitting there day after day, just watching television
and the other people watching television, and staring at each other. But not
for Ray, because of you two he was spared that final cruelty of life. Thank God
for you both.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chester L. now calls for everyone to take
their seats. There will be no priest or minister officiating at Ray’s service.
Not that Ray had anything against men-of-the-cloth, but he said he would rather
have the people who knew him best send him off in a simple ceremony. That is
exactly what today’s memorial will be: a few words by Chester L., a song, and
some spoken thoughts by Frank Godles, written by John Lafferty.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>A small table with a plain white cloth
stands at the front of the room, upon which sets an urn that contains Ray’s
ashes. The final remnants of a life lived. Frank sits on a simple folding chair
to the left of Ray’s ashes and Chester L. to the right.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Chester L. rises once everyone is seated and
begins to speak, saying all the nice things one says about the dearly departed.
He makes a joke about how he thinks Ray still owes him for a round of golf and
then chokes up as he says how much he will miss him. He finishes his brief
remarks by introducing the song Ray chose specifically for the occasion, Bob
Dylan’s <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Restless Farwell</i>. A fitting
bow wrapped snugly around the life of Raymond Taylor.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Oh,
all the money that in my whole life I did spend, be it mine right or
wrongfully. I let it slip gladly to my friends, to tie up the time most
forcefully… </i>begins the song. Frank’s mind drifts to a rain delay he, John,
and Ray had once at Myrtle Beach. The three friends stood under a shelter by the
clubhouse at Moorland Golf Club, smoking cigars and watching the rain fall
violently to the ground.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>“It’s not really happening you know?” Ray
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray turns to his friend, “The rain on the
golf course.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>John now joins the game with puzzlement in
his voice, “What the hell you talking about Ray?” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray takes a drag on his cigar and lets the
smoke drift out from under the shelter and into the rain. “My dad use to say it
never rains on the golf course. When I was a child I believed his statement to
be a literal assessment of meteorological fact. As I got older I realized he
was speaking in a metaphysical sense, one of the few times he would allow
himself to do so. A person never sees the clouds and rain in their life as long
as they choose not to.” <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray continues uninterrupted by his golf
companions, “Have you ever thought that this earthly life is just a rain delay
for whatever comes next?” Ray drags in the smoke from his cigar, slowly
releases it from his mouth, and continues, “We’re all just biding our time
until we can get on the course and play. Never really sure when that moment
will arrive, we busy ourselves with whatever monotonous things we can to pass
the time until finally it is <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">our</i>
time.” <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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explanation of life, “Yes, but those who claim science as their faith may argue
that when we die we’re dead; just like the trees, flowers, rabbits, and bears.
We as humans just have the intellectual ability and physical acumen to create
and acquire distractions. But they’re still just distractions from the
inevitable fact that we will some day cease to exist.”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank proffers no response or challenge to
either of his friends, but rather he studies Ray without saying a word. He
concludes that Ray is an optimist, even in the face of incontrovertible
evidence that optimism is not warranted. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank awaits the end of the song as he
thinks further about the rain delay. Some people, it is said, walk between the
rain drops all their lives. Somehow they escape the damp cold of life’s harshest
struggles and pain. They seem to know instinctively the paths to take to avoid
the rain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray was not one of those people. In fact
he ran headlong into the rain from safer environs and danced in it until it
thoroughly drenched him. He would tilt back his head to fully drink in the
misfortune and pain.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ray never minded
golfing in the rain, Frank remembers, maybe it was because he really could not
believe it was happening. Or he <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">chose</i>
not to believe it. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank is tugged out of his private
thoughts by the last refrain of the song; <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">so
I’ll make my stand, and remain as I am, and bid farewell and not give a damn.</i>
Frank thinks about the words as they hang in the air. It was not that Ray did
not care about those around him, just the opposite. He just seemed to <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">not give a damn</i> about himself or making
the best of his life that he could. <o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: "calibri";"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Frank walks somberly to the perch where
Ray’s ashes set. He looks at them, kisses his extended forefinger and
middle-finger, and places them gently on the urn. He then turns his gaze
towards the assemblage gathered in Ray’s honor. He chokes back the tears
welling up from deep inside and begins; “In the beginning there was golf…”<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-41904512497966905552016-04-21T08:51:00.002-07:002016-04-21T08:51:40.642-07:00Our Age of Un-enlightenment As I watch in general the world, and specifically our nation, from the narrow window that is every individual's point of perspective, I have come to the conclusion that we have regressed. This regression has been, in recent years, an accelerated descent into an age of un-enlightenment. It seems as though the more technologically advanced we have become, the more unenlightened we have also become. I am not suggesting that technology is a causation of the condition of un-enlightenment, only a corollary. The real cause is a much more nefarious infection called Leftism.<br />
Intimated and inspired by the Left is the radical environmental movement, where its devotees have elevated the earth and its nature contain therein to the level of God, deserving of worship and praise. The individuals who have sanctified the climate through sacrifice of reason, are a throwback to other unenlightened periods in world history. As the simple peasants of unenlightened times imparted certain religious and mystical powers to the earth's accouterments, so do the modern day climate change zealots impart their own misplaced religious devotion to the object of their faith. <br />
Additionally inspired by the Left is their unenlightened sacrament of erasing the distinctions, placed their by nature, between males and females of the species. This is so egregiously backward as to have no equal in world history. For even the most simple-minded and irrational peoples of the past recognized the undeniable separation between the male and female sexes. The most recent violation of natural logic on this subject is the Lefts insistence that restrooms, previously assigned on the basis of one's genitals (not their feelings), be converted to symbols of Leftist intolerance for nature's truth. And as in every foray into un-enlightenment that the Left has pulled our nation into, the obliteration of the female and male sexes is a tyranny imposed on the vast majority of society by a vocal and miniscule minority.<br />
The current campaigns to win the presidency this Fall is glaringly exemplary of how far down the rabbit hole of un-enlightenment we have traveled. The front-runners on both sides of the political aisle are the quintessential examples of un-enlightenment. Both have character flaws one could drive a truck through, and ethics and morals that one would be hard pressed to find with an electron microscope. Added to these serious foibles is neither one's ability or willingness to step outside the vacuous shadows of their vapid rhetoric. Proof of the un-enlightenment is not so much in these individuals, but in the fact that a substantial number of people support them. Once again the Lefts emotionalism over intellect has even infiltrated the Right.<br />
Yes my friends, we have entered an age of un-enlightenment that could last quite a while. As communication has become easier, we meaningfully communicate less. As information becomes more ubiquitous, the truth becomes more scarce. As more of our population graduates college, our national intelligence quotient has collapsed. As our ability to do good has been made more possible through our prosperity, it seems we have chosen to feel good instead. And as quickly as we entered a new period in world history that should have lead to paradise, we have just as quickly set it ablaze with moral abandonment and selfishness ushered in by the Leftist ideology of the last fifty years.Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-59939290536279584972016-04-11T08:33:00.000-07:002016-04-11T08:38:19.384-07:00The Choice Between Arsenic and Hemlock I just realized it has been weeks since I have made a new post to this blog. That is what happens when one is working 70 hours a week, and is unable to find the time for even routine chores let alone commenting on the political machinations of the day. I do have some thoughts however on the recent complaining of Donald Trump about the Republican primary process and the yet another position on the Trump campaign by the ever-fluid Mark Levin. I will try as hard as I can to make sense of the senselessness of both topics and tie them together in a nice, neat package.<br />
The Trump campaign and his goose-stepping followers, realizing that the myth of overwhelming support for Donald Trump is drifting away like the vapor from an E-cigarette, have now begun to blame the Republican primary process for their candidate's electoral impotence. Both the candidate and his votaries have said the Republican primary process is corrupt and <em>must</em> be changed. Odd how they seemed blind to the flaws in the system only a couple months ago when the Trump campaign appeared unstoppable. And there does not seem to be any whining about the primary process from Donald Trump and his marionettes about the primaries he wins, only the ones he loses.<br />
So according to the Trump campaign the only fair primaries are the ones he wins, all others are corrupt and should go the way of the typewriter and the phone booth. Anyone who is being intellectually honest at all would admit that if The Donald had clinched the nomination by now we would not be subject to the constant whining about him being treated "unfairly." The whining by him and his devotees are a consequence of his inability to rise above 35% support and clinch the nomination with the accumulation of the 1237 delegates needed to be called the Republican nominee.<br />
As for Mark Levin and his constantly changing political values, I have to say I agree with his recent sentiment of not voting for Donald Trump under any circumstance. Although his reason for doing so is because of his perception that the Trump campaign personally attacked him, and not because he understands that Donald Trump would be a bigger disaster for the country than Hillary Clinton. It has been amazing to watch "The Great One's (that is what Mark Levin's trolls call him)" shifting position on The Donald. In the span of only six months Mr. Levin has gone from full-throated support for Mr. Trump, to now saying he would not vote for him if he is the nominee. Talk about values built on sand.<br />
As for all those who say Donald Trump could not be worse than Hillary Clinton, and might, just might be slightly better; is this what we have come to in this nation, i.e. voting for someone who we think can not be worse than the most corrupt and inept candidate to ever run? And who says Donald Trump could not be worse that Hillary Clinton? This is the most irrational reason to vote for a Republican candidate I have ever heard. To state categorically that Mr. Trump would not be worse than Hillary Clinton begs the question: Have these folks been paying attention to this campaign? Some on the Right have such a hatred for and a vendetta against Hillary Clinton that they are willing to elect someone worse just to keep her out of the White House.<br />
Not that I cherish a Hillary Clinton presidency. I do not. But a Trump presidency promises to be as bad if not worse. Let us hope that our choice is not between arsenic and hemlock, because neither is pleasant to think about and both will lead to a greater demise than we have already experienced.Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-48537284813994514052016-03-22T06:39:00.001-07:002016-03-22T06:39:26.302-07:00The Ethos of Large Government and Smaller Citizen There is an ethos of political thought that postulates our politics has become so consuming in American modernity because government has become so large, thus becoming more intrusive in the lives of its citizens. An ever-increasing federal authority is at least partially responsible for the political season going from occupying the space just before elections, as was the case for much of our history, to gobbling up most of the oxygen in media and elsewhere. It is this ethos of the relationship between a growing government and the importance of politics to the average American that I see as a major reason for the appeal of Donald Trump by some Republican primary voters.<br />
First some facts. The latest polling data shows that only seventeen percent of eligible voters have voted in the Republican primaries. Of those seventeen percent, only a third have supported Mr. Trump. So in other words the claim by some of his zealots that "America loves Trump," is simply not borne out by the math, which shows he has about six percent support among the total number of eligible voters. Still there is substantial support for part time businessman-part time reality TV star-part time politician. <br />
When asked why they support The Donald, his votaries can only grasp at the straw of his bombastic invectives as proof of his strength. They see him as some kind of protector, as the simple peasants would have seen a king in a time long ago. It is not important to Trump supporters what he believes (if anything) or what form his policies might take if he is elected president. They are mired in the base instinct of supporting the man they see as the strong horse. This emotional response is a result of the ethos of expanding government, and the corresponding growth in the importance of politics in the lives of the citizens.<br />
My theory is supported by the fact that those who support Mr. Trump are not concerned with the traditional tenet of conservatism, i.e. limiting the size and scope of the federal government. In fact, Donald Trump's stated policies would actually increase the size of government, not shrink it. His vacuous campaign slogan, "Make America Great Again," is a harbinger of that expansion under a President Trump. Those who think America is not great unless Mr. Trump is president, and only the federal government under his guidance can make it great, have shown a limited understanding of what made America great to begin with.<br />
The support for Donald Trump as president is not surprising in this Leftist infected culture where the weakening of self reliance has become an epidemic. It is just surprising to me that it seems to have metastasized in what was once the conservative movement. And those calling themselves conservatives, then looking for a father figure as president, is a disgusting development that I find abhorrent. It was not that long ago that a celebrity referred to Barack Obama as a father figure for the country and these same conservatives pilloried him for it. Now it seems they are supporting a man for president whose only apparent qualification for the job is the perceived strength that his followers have lost in themselves. Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-60412952182222294622016-03-16T04:48:00.000-07:002016-03-16T04:48:14.847-07:00March 15-The Death Knell for Trump Campaign After the primaries of yesterday, March 15, 2016, the Republican field has narrowed yet again. A field that began some 12 months ago with 18 candidates, is now a three man race, made so with the exit of Marco Rubio after the Florida senator could not garner a win in his home state. Ohio governor John Kasich however proved he could win, albeit in his home state, yet he was the only non-Trump candidate that won a state. Nobody knows how the race to become the Republican nominee will end, although one can make the case that Donald Trump may have reached his peak and is on his way to losing the nomination.<br />
With many of the remaining states awarding their delegates on a proportional basis, and with Mr. Trump needing 60% of the remaining delegates to clinch the nomination outright, there is little chance that the Republican convention in Cleveland this July will not be an open one. Mr. Trump has not even gotten near 60% of the vote in any of the proportional states that have already had their primaries, there is nothing to suggest he will do so in the remaining ones.<br />
Mr. Trump and his glassy-eyed devotees understand this fact, even if it is on a very basic level able to be grasped by their limited intellectual acumen. This is why they have been lately making noise that if Trump has the most delegates at the end of the primary process, and is short of the 1237 needed to clinch the nomination, he should be awarded the nomination anyway. This ignoring of the rules because they interfere with one's political agenda is not conservative or based on traditional American values.<br />
Of course no one could accuse the Trump campaign and his deluded votaries of being either conservative or tethered to the values which founded this great nation. That is what makes his campaign so surprising to me, one who always thought this kind of chicanery and deceit was a tenet of the Left and did not have a home in the Republican Party. The Trump campaign, and more importantly the churlish manner in which his supporters have conducted themselves, has illustrated to me that Leftism has indeed infected the Republican Party.<br />
But I digress. I think the March 15 primaries might just become the death knell for the ill-advised Trump campaign. For if he does not reach the required 1237 delegates, and the convention in July is an open one, he will not survive when delegates are able to vote their conscience and are not bound by polling results. If this happens, John Kasich could be seen as a compromise choice and may just win the nomination. Whatever the outcome, for the sake of the Republican Party, the conservative movement, and the nation, Mr. Trump must not be the nominee.<br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-47718495173956121242016-03-03T07:01:00.000-08:002016-03-03T07:04:40.633-08:00Carson The Anti-Trump With the announcement by Dr. Ben Carson that he is suspending his campaign, the field for those seeking the Republican nomination to represent the GOP in this November's general election has once again narrowed. Dr. Carson realized, as all second tier candidates realize at some point, single digit support is not going to win the White House. But with the departure of the good doctor there is a sense of sadness in my heart, for the Republican Party, for the political process, and for the country as a whole. You see, Ben Carson was the anti-Trump. Not just the opposite of the front runner in the level of support for his campaign, but the opposite of the front runner in his maturity, manner, demeanor, and sensibility.<br />
Where Ben Carson grew up in abject poverty, raised by a single-mom, Mr. Trump was coddled in the palace of wealth built by his father's business acumen. Where Ben Carson struggled as a child (with the constant support and guidance of his mother) to rise from the bondage of the ghetto, Mr. Trump's only struggle was how fast he could return the silver spoon to his mouth once it was again filled with the sweet sauce of wealth he did not earn. And where Ben Carson dedicated his life and career to healing the sick and saving lives, Donald Trump dedicated his to the pursuit of narcissism and self aggrandizement. <br />
Ben Carson is a warm Summer breeze gently rustling the leaves on the tree of change. Donald Trump is a gale force hurricane uprooting that tree and rendering it useless. Ben Carson speaks with the precision and accuracy of a surgeon's knife. Donald Trump speaks like a shotgun fired into the openness of an empty landscape. Ben Carson is not hurtful, vain, deceitful, vacuous, or possessed of guile. Donald Trump is all of those things. <br />
Ben Carson is a man who has developed a substantial set of values over a life time of experience. Donald Trump's values are malleable and ephemeral like a high school romance. Dr. Carson manipulates nothing to his own ends. To Mr. Trump, manipulation of anything he can <em>is </em>the ultimate end. Ben Carson is a giant of a man who seeks to build up others to his level. Donald Trump is a small and petty man who seeks to increase his stature by climbing over the bodies of those he tears down.<br />
Yes, I am saddened by the departure from the Republican presidential race by one of the most decent men to have ever entered a political contest. And I am dismayed and flummoxed by the current front runner having substantial support among people from a Party who claims values as their watchword and decency as their anchor in the sea of political discourse. It speaks ill of us as a Party specifically, and more generally as a nation, when voters choose to support the Trump over the anti-Trump.Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-54317954082115381992016-02-26T10:13:00.001-08:002016-02-26T10:17:26.021-08:00The Willful Blindness of Trump Support No one with even a modicum of intellectual honesty could have watched or listened to the Republican debate last night and concluded that Donald Trump is anything but an intellectual lightweight and a congenital liar, just like the beneficiary of his political donations, Hillary Clinton. Not only should The Donald have been thoroughly mortified by being exposed as a man of the Left by his fellow debaters, but his supporters, if they were being the least bit rational, should run away from him in droves. From his blatant lie about his position on healthcare exposed by Ted Cruz, to his juvenile response to moderator Hugh Hewitt because he dared ask a question Mr. Trump did not like, once again Donald Trump has shown himself not only to be unworthy of the Oval Office, but any position in government short of that of Johnny mopping toilets in some remote government installation.<br />
But it really is not Donald Trump's fault, after all he has more than likely been a defective human being most of his life. No, I blame the those who have bastardized the term conservative in order to feel some self-justification and self-righteousness for supporting a candidate who is as far away from the definition of that word as his likely Democrat opponent, should he actually win the Republican nomination. <br />
Conservative talk show host Dennis Prager says often that Leftism is the most dynamic religion of the last hundred years because of its ubiquitous presence in education, entertainment, media, and even in this nation's religiosity. Now it appears Leftism has infected the Republican Party and conservative movement, as evidenced by the support for Donald Trump.<br />
The real delusion of Trump supporters is not only that they believe he can or will actually do what he says, but that they are somehow anti-establishment for supporting a candidate that is far Left of the so-called Republican establishment. It is probably the biggest political dichotomy I have seen or read about ever. The Trump supporters seem uniquely blind, almost willfully so, to the serious flaws of their candidate that would preclude him from the running for most who call themselves conservative. This kind of willful blindness was not even this hyperbolic in support for President Obama in 2008, a real achievement for Trump supporters.<br />
The problem with those who say they will vote for Trump against the Democrat, if he is the nominee, is that they miss the bigger picture. If a Democrat like Trump can run for and win the presidential prize as a Republican, what is the point? The president is leader of his Party. In Trump's case he will blend the two Party system into a one Party rule. And that my friends will be much worse for the country than four years of a Democrat president with a Republican congress. Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-32714586815962886232016-02-22T10:17:00.002-08:002016-02-22T10:17:38.223-08:00Who Benefits From Bush Withdraw? The "Let's make a point crowd" is celebrating Donald Trump's victory in the South Carolina primary last weekend. Marco Rubio and his supporters are also celebrating a second place finish in said primary contest. The Ted Cruz campaign is trying desperately to convince themselves that their third place finish in South Carolina is not a harbinger of a campaign that may be running afoul of a Republican electorate that may be coming to grips with a reality that if the Republicans do not sport a candidate that can win in November, the Democrat will most assuredly win. The Carson campaign, which ever increasingly is an army of one, is vowing to fight until the end. John Kasich is hoping to hang in until the Ohio primary on March 15, hoping for the surge he has promised supporters is coming. And Jeb Bush has called it quits in his bid to be the third Bush to become president.<br />
The Jeb Bush campaign ending in a crash and burn style reminiscent of the Hindenburg serves to illustrate two very important items. One, that money in politics does not have as much influence as some wish to convince the gullible that it does, and two, that Donald Trump has hit a ceiling in this campaign which may reverse itself into a floor as more candidates drop from the race. I have always maintained that the Trump campaign is one that depends on a crowded field. And that a candidate which has the highest negative numbers in presidential history can not even win his Party's nomination, much less the general election, with such animus aimed at him by a majority of Americans.<br />
The most likely beneficiary of the Jeb Bush withdraw from the race is Marco Rubio. In fact, with each of the remaining candidates, their exits from the race would most likely be a boon to the Rubio campaign. His recent surge and the sobering up of the Republican electorate that they must nominate someone who can actually beat Hillary Clinton, bodes well for a Rubio nomination. With Rubio poised to gain more support, and Trump having hit his limit of support, the two thirds of Republican primary voters who not only do not support Trump but have a vomiting reflex at the sound of his voice, will inevitably give their support to Senator Rubio.<br />
Donald Trump is many things, conservative is certainly a proven commodity he does not posses. Marco Rubio has that specific commodity in spades, and provably so. So why do so many so-called conservatives support Trump? It is simple: They care more about making a point and sticking it to the so-called establishment that has been demonized by some in Right-Wing radio, than nominating someone who can win. Not that congressional Republicans have not made mistakes, but the Trump supporters, and to a degree Cruz supporters, have succumb to the temptation of making themselves feel good instead of actually doing what is good for the country. <br />
The best that Trump can hope for is that Rubio does not get the required delegates, which will mean a brokered convention in Cleveland this July. After which when he loses such a battle he can go third Party based on the Republicans "treating him unfairly." This of course will precipitate a Democrat win and all those self righteous emotional cripples that support Trump can get on their high horses and say they told everyone that Rubio would not win. Not acknowledging that they would be the cause of such a loss. But delusion is the main ingredient in the Trump stew, and his supporters lap it up and ask for seconds.<br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-58297532222702861792016-02-09T07:53:00.002-08:002016-02-09T07:53:58.525-08:00Marco Rubio "Gets It!" So the final Republican debate before the nation's first primary in New Hampshire today is over, and the endless analysis has been in full swing since Saturday night. Much of that analysis has focused on candidate Marco Rubio actually using the same words to answer the same attacks from the Republican version of Jabba the Hutt, Chris Christie. My, my where has our politics gone when a politicians actually repeats himself? The fact that Donald Trump's campaign is exclusively anchored in the redundancy of the ridiculous has somehow eluded some of Senator Rubio's harshest (and I might add most childish) critics. But then Trump supporters are nothing if not blind to the same flaws in their candidate that they exaggerate in others.<br />
No one who is criticizing Mr. Rubio for his repeated answer has actually dealt with the substance of what he stated. This is a tactic learned by the Left from Saul Alinsky and passed to the Right through useful dupes like Mark Levin. I agree that Marco Rubio could have handled his canned response much more effectively, but it does not mitigate the fact that Marco Rubio "gets it," and Chris Christie, et al does not. And the "It" is the fact that Barack Obama is not the disease but just the latest symptom of the disease.<br />
Barack Obama has executed a brilliant plan that Leftists have dreamed about for generations. He has struck just the right balance in the economy, which encourages dependence, while at the same time is growing just enough to silence critics. He has used race and victim-ology to enact a bigger role for the federal government in local policing. He has been successful in his foreign policy of reducing American influence in world events, which has been a core dream of the Left for many years. He has increased the role of government in individuals lives while reducing it in the world at large. And all this he has done by dancing around the edges of constitutionality.<br />
Marco Rubio was right and wise to highlight that the Obama America is one of design, not incompetence. And furthermore, that Leftism is the cancer that eats away at the heart of American values and the healthy body of Liberty. Senator Rubio understands better than the spittle-producing Christie how important it is for us as conservatives not to focus on Barack Obama (who is leaving office in less than a year) but on the cause of our discontent and sickness. And that cause is Leftism.<br />
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Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-39348593631937249202016-02-04T08:19:00.000-08:002016-02-04T08:19:52.294-08:00A Culture of Name-Calling Young children on a playground will often participate in a favorite juvenile tradition, i.e. name calling. Usually the target of such an activity is one who is perceived to be different from a norm imposed by the standards of the group. Other times the target is another child who is perceived to be weaker or stronger than the name caller. The act of name calling is meant to achieve two results; a) to marginalize the target from the rest of the group, and b) to make the name caller feel superior. Our recent political debate, especially on the Right, has degenerated into a hyper-version of the school yard tradition of name calling.<br />
The reckless abandon with which some on the Right have succumbed to the ignorance of name calling is an alarming development. We see this behavior being enacted by some in talk radio, so-called conservatives on social media, and in the general population of those on the Right side of the political spectrum. I have grown ever so weary of the ease with which the insult of Rino (Republican in name only), or "establishment" is withdrawn from the intellectually lazy holster of those who disagree with a Republican leader on even one issue. <br />
To Witt: Consider the case of Marco Rubio. Here is a guy who most conservatives agreed was the kind of candidate they would want to represent the Republican Party in a presidential election. Senator Rubio makes the "mistake" of trying to work with the majority Party in congress at the time, the Democrats, and a Democrat President, to achieve the best result he could under those conditions to solve the issues surrounding illegal immigration. For that "mortal sin" he has forever been labeled a Rino/member of the establishment. <br />
The real dichotomy of the position of those who call Senator Rubio a Rino for supporting the Gang of 8 bill, is that they also say the same thing about former Speaker John Boehner, who opposed the Gang of 8 bill and essentially kept it from coming to a vote in the House of Representatives. But this is exemplary of the complete capriciousness of the name calling Right. There is no real rhyme or reason to their tactics. They are more about demoting the esteem of those with whom they disagree in the eyes of others, than they are about promoting any superior ideas or values of their own. <br />
Another prong of the name calling strategy is to mis-characterize a person's position as something that it is not so they can be figuratively tar and feathered with an untrue accounting of their beliefs. Again, taking the example of Marco Rubio and the Gang of 8 bill, those name callers on the Right characterized the bill as amnesty. This of course is the dirtiest of words for those one-issue voters who think illegal immigration is the most serious issue facing this great nation. But the Gang of 8 bill was not about amnesty at all, as any intellectually honest person who read the bill would acknowledge. But the name callers do not deal in truth, but narratives that they create which advance their political agenda.<br />
The Democrats and those on the Left have always populated the school yard of political debate. It is just a shame that so many on the Right have now followed them to that playground of the weak-minded and intellectually immature. We can measure our dedication to our Founders' values, and the principles enshrined in our founding documents, by the honesty and decorum with which we conduct ourselves in the public arena of political debate. Under those terms, some of the members of our conservative movement have failed miserably.<br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-75472722200697428502016-02-03T07:10:00.000-08:002016-02-03T07:14:22.639-08:00The Politics of the Extemporaneous If there is one thing I deplore it is pettiness. The pettifoggery of focusing on the insignificant, even if it may contain a kernel of truth, is in my opinion dishonest and a betrayal of the truth. It seems as though the single-minded focus on the extemporaneous has become a mainstay of our politics on the Right. The Left of course has engaged in this practice for many decades, in fact their entire ideology is centered on diverting the public's attention from what is truly important to that which is much less significant. But this behavior, or more to the point, this bad behavior, has grown into a cancer on the Right which threatens to destroy the healthy tissue of our principles.<br />
I submit as evidentiary to my thesis the recent campaign to nominate a Republican candidate to challenge the Democrat nominee to become the next President of the United States vis-a-vis this November's election. There is myriad issues being discussed and debated in the campaign, that is a fact. But the main thrust of focus in both the Left stream and Right stream media are the issues that run contrary to the tenets of importance as they relate to choosing another president to lead this country through the next four years.<br />
The entire campaign of the front runner, Donald Trump, is built upon the foundation of frivolity. And that inconsequential-ality of frothy rhetoric has spilled over into the other campaigns in the Republican presidential race. It is the substantial support for Donald Trump and his methods of campaigning that has caused the other campaigns to devolve into the kind of childish behavior that many of the practitioners of such behavior have criticized. To Witt: the incessant focus by some on whether or not Ted Cruz is even eligible to run, in consideration of his Canadian birth to an American mother. <br />
Then there is the recent dust-up over some Cruz campaign staffers forwarding an erroneous media story about his fellow candidate Ben Carson dropping out of the race. Anyone who reads my blog on a regular basis knows I am no Ted Cruz fan. But I can believe in a major campaign inundated with the thunderstorm of media and information, erroneous information could be forwarded about a fellow candidate. And while Ted Cruz's staffers were guilty of not properly vetting the story they received from CNN, I do not believe it was a deliberate attempt to sabotage the Carson camp.<br />
Conservatism has always been about accepting the truth whether or not it may support the conservative goals in the short term, because it will always support the principles of Liberty in the longer term. I am chagrined to see many of my conservative brethren boarding the train of devolution that is fueled by the extemporaneous. The petty bickering and name-calling that has become more prevalent on the Right recently is not worthy of the conservative principles of Ronald Reagan, William F. Buckley Jr, Jack Kemp, et al. We would be wise as conservatives to once again set ourselves apart from the Left by living the values of the constitution and the intellectual temperament of the aforementioned individuals. Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-73985058226280115182016-02-01T09:21:00.000-08:002016-02-01T09:21:56.947-08:00Hash Tag: RancherLivesMatter The Oregon standoff that started with anti-government separatists occupying federal property because their "principles" gave them permission to do so, and ended with one of the ring leaders of the group, Levoy Finnicum, receiving his wish to "die for the cause," is exemplary of what happens with the break down of the rule of law. The very nature of groups like the Oregon vigilantes is that they become demented by the delusion that their "cause" is above the law. It is the path for all extremists to become hopelessly drunk on the wine of their own self-righteousness and empowered by their mangled interpretation of shared values.<br />
I am not here to prosecute the merits of the grievances that lead them to such heights of irresponsible and anti-social behavior, but rather to evaluate how it worked out for them in the end. These ranchers may have a legitimate gripe against an ever encroaching federal government, but they lost any support from the general public when they allowed themselves to occupy not only federal property, but a pedestal that sits high above the rule of law. If there is one thing the average American dislikes more than out-of-control government telling them what to do, it is out-of-control zealots who break the bonds of civilized society to prosecute a war against what they see as oppression.<br />
I suppose the sparse supporters of Levoy Finnicum and his gang would point to the rugged individualism of the western ranchers as the motivation for their behavior. But rugged individualism does not translate into an excuse for anarchy. Whether that anarchy is in the wide open spaces of a wild life preserve in Oregon, or the tightly populated city of Baltimore Maryland. When believers in a cause become the purveyors of violence, their cause ceases to be of importance and their behavior becomes paramount.<br />
I am not much of a Twitter user, but I fully expect (if it has not already happened) for a new hash tag campaign to emerge named #RancherLivesMatter. They already have their own version of "Hands Up, Don't Shoot." As repulsive to the values of the rule of law the actions of the BlackLivesMatter group are, as consistent conservatives we must also find just as repulsive the actions of the RancherLivesMatter folks. The seeds of anarchy which germinate into the full fledged flower of tyranny, must be opposed by all those truly interested in the cause of Liberty and the continuation of the values enshrined in this great nation's founding documents.Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-15392407691350480712016-01-28T08:08:00.000-08:002016-01-28T08:08:24.448-08:00The Misdirection of the Trump No-Show Tonight is the final Republican debate before the first salvo in the primary voting, i.e. the Iowa caucuses. It will proceed, sans the front runner in the race, Donald Trump. The Donald has made a very public display that he will not attend the debate being hosted by Fox News, and in part moderated by Megan Kelly. Mr. Trump has spared no decency or decorum in expressing his dislike for Megan Kelly, who in the last Fox debate had the unmitigated gall to ask Mr. Trump some pointed and tough questions. But as is the habit of a well practiced Alinsky-ite like Donald Trump, his absence is not so much about harming Fox, but the Republican Party.<br />
Candidate Trump's strategy from the beginning, I believe, has been to run third Party. He said as much in the beginning, and then pulled back from that position because it was too early for him to do so successfully. He first needed to secure the far Right vote of the Republican Party, and the moderate vote in the Democrat Party. He has successfully accomplished the former and is now working on the latter by not only skipping the Fox debate, but holding his own event at the same time on MSNBC, the mouth piece network for the Left.<br />
Donald Trump's vociferous whining about "not being treated fairly," first by the Republican Party, then by Fox News, has a certain appeal to those on the Left and their constant emphasis on victim status. After all, they elected Barack Obama in large part because he is a member of one of the Lefts victim groups and deserved to hold the highest office in the land. So Mr. Trump's appeal to those moderately on the Left can be attributed to the same victimology which elected our current Commander In Chief. In other words those on the Left see Republicans as the enemy, and the enemy of my enemy, i.e. Donald Trump, is my friend.<br />
No one could argue that Donald Trump is not a narcissist. And what more spectacular way to feed the narcissistic hunger in a man than to create and head a new political Party that he thinks, in his own narcissistic mind, is going to start a national movement to elect him president? At worse Mr. Trump can play spoiler to the Republican Party, the members of which he accuses of being unfair to The Donald. That would ensure an electoral victory for the enemy of his enemy, Hillary Clinton. A second best to he himself becoming the president. And besides he can run again in 2020 to dethrone the Queen of emails when the nation becomes weary of her and her husbands antics.<br />
So whether Fox News suffers tonight in the ratings from a Trump no show, or whether they do not, the real target of the Trump strategy is the Republican Party. And I am surprised by the number of those on the Right who support his efforts. They have been softened as targets for such a strategy by the constant drumbeat against the Republican "establishment" by the Alinsky conservatives like Mark Levin, et al. I would like to ask these folks who is going to defeat the Democrat nominee other than a Republican nominee? The dream of a third Party coming out of nowhere and sweeping the nation is the fodder of the narcissistic mind of Donald Trump and his supporters.<br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-14167103680463658852016-01-25T07:01:00.000-08:002016-01-25T07:01:20.329-08:00The Emotion-Over-Intellect Syndrome Well the wild-eyed, locust-eating, cave-dwelling Trump supporters are at it again. They have previously ignored the positions that their candidate has taken that do not fit their wishful thinking about him. On every issue, from amnesty to xenophobia, Trump supporters seem not so concerned about the position their candidate takes, but how loudly he takes it. And their only reasons for supporting the billionaire real estate developer seems to be his money and his mouth. The former, in their opinion, makes him somehow more saintly than other candidates, the latter makes him somehow more authentic. This would be all fine and good if they allowed for the same from his detractors.<br />
The recent dust-up among Trump supporters over National Review's symposium issue, <em>Against Trump</em>, is illustrative of the complete hypocrisy endemic in support for The Donald. It appears from the stand point of Trump supporters that their candidate is the only one who is allowed to speak his mind and have an opinion. Those who would pierce the thin vale of reality that surrounds his candidacy are persona non grata in the opinion of the robotic crowds that slavishly follow Mr. Trump from campaign stop to campaign stop.<br />
I can not say that I have never seen anything similar in American politics to the disconnect between Donald Trump's supporters and the reality of the man himself. I saw the same devotion to an empty slate in 2008 as it applied to Barack Obama. In both cases the votaries of these two candidates are supporting what they hoped their candidate would be, and not what they actually are. They wish so hard for a savior that they attach that label to a man who plies the electorate with platitudes and manipulates the emotions of the malleable. After all, emotions are a very powerful force in the human, much more powerful than the intellect.<br />
And so it is the emotions-over-intellect syndrome that causes Mr. Trump's supporters to demonize National Review's contributors for having a different opinion. And it is the emotion-over-intellect syndrome that causes otherwise smart people to twist themselves into pretzels when asked to explain their support for Donald Trump. The emotional argument that he would be better than Hillary, not necessarily the best candidate. Or the emotional argument that he does not need specifics because he will "figure it out" when he gets into the Oval Office. Or the emotional argument that he is somehow beyond corruption because he is self-funding.<br />
But the most detrimental and most emotional outburst is the one that aims to shut down the free speech of those who would dare oppose The Donald. Instead of dealing with the substance of the National Review's contributors, the Trump supporters react like snarling dogs protecting the fenced-in area of their candidate's fragile and vapid candidacy.Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-33187692837839611732016-01-22T08:01:00.002-08:002016-01-22T08:01:40.783-08:00Rush Limbaugh, Mark Levin, and the Political Gamble In Which They Engage Presidential campaigns have ebb and flow. Leaders emerge and fade, supporters for one candidate change their allegiance to another, and in the end when the dust settles it is the candidate who is able to inspire support among the greatest number of primary voters who wins the prize. The Republican race to become the Party's representative in this November's general election is no different. With one caveat, there seems to be a conspiracy afoot in Right-Wing talk radio. Now, as a rule I am not susceptible to lending credence to conspiracy theories. But the recent, sudden, and jarring switch of support from Donald Trump to Ted Cruz by Rush Limbaugh and Mark Levin leads me to believe there is something more present than just a come-to-Jesus moment for both men.<br />
For the last several months both "conservative" talkers have been evangelists for the Trump campaign, even in the face of the candidate's own non-conservative views and behavior. And then as if a switch was activated, both Limbaugh and Levin have become Cruz backers. The excuse given by both is the recent attacks by Mr. Trump aimed at Mr. Cruz, and the formers support for ethanol subsidies in the all important caucus state of Iowa. Both reasons have been present in the race for sometime and hold very little credence to the intellectually honest.<br />
And then of course there is the Sarah Palin endorsement of Donald Trump in the campaign, which I think has played a bigger role in the alacrity engaged by Mr. Levin and Mr. Limbaugh in switching support from Mr. Trump to Mr. Cruz. Sarah Palin, for those that do not remember, endorsed Ted Cruz in his race for the senate way back in 2010. Back then it was the conservative values of the Tea Party that Mrs. Palin brought to bear in helping Mr. Cruz become Senator Cruz. For that moment in time the Tea Party was a benefit to the Reagan conservatives, since, they have moved quickly into the liability column as a result of their evermore radical views.<br />
Mark Levin and Rush Limbaugh are both entertainers and businessmen first, and defenders of the Reagan conservatism faith second. Being lead by ratings also causes one to become somewhat of a gambler in political talk radio. Both Limbaugh and Levin gambled that Trump was going to become the Republican nominee, so they fell in step behind the Left-leaning real estate developer. Both men (maybe after meeting with each other and mulling the polls) have now switched their bets to Cruz, seeing Trump's popularity fading to the fringe. Helped along by the intellectual lightweight and fringy Right-Wing maven of conservative fluff, Sara Palin, and her endorsement of The Donald.<br />
Of course none of my theory can be proved, that is why it is a theory. It just seems awful suspicious to me that both men would be so in-the-bag for Donald Trump, and then both switch their allegiance to Ted Cruz in lock step. If it is not part of a larger conspiracy, it is one of the great coincidences in American politics. We shall see once the voting begins next month in Iowa whether or not Mr. Levin and Mr. Limbaugh's bets on Cruz pays off, or if they will once again have to change their bets to another candidate they see emerging. Both men risk looking even more foolish as the wheel slows down and their bets are still so fluid.<br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-39810993968744336492016-01-21T06:24:00.000-08:002016-01-21T06:24:29.508-08:00The Broad Brush Syndrome There seems to be an inordinate amount of emphasis in our current political climate being placed on the activity of over-generalization, i.e. <em>painting with a broad brush</em>. This destructive behavior is found on both the Left and Right sides of the political ideology circle, and it is at the core of the modern Lefts bible, Saul Alinsky's <em>Rules For Radicals</em>. The most disturbing aspect of this sickness to me is that it appears to have spread among those on the Right at an alarming rate, metastasizing in the current campaign to choose a presidential nominee to represent us this November. I can not help but acknowledge that those who paint with a broad brush have willingly replaced art with artifice.<br />
I have glanced this issue in other blog posts, such as my post of yesterday, <em>Establishment: The New Scarlet Letter.</em> I can not imagine any intellectually honest person refusing to recognize the polarization of our politics, not only inter-Party, but intra-Party. The Broad Brush Syndrome has been applied to every serious issue facing this great country, and even to some inconsequential ones as well. From Muslim immigration to President Obama's birth certificate, one only has to spend 10 minutes on social media to find zealots who proselytize one or another extreme views on myriad political subjects.<br />
The inter-Party polarization is somewhat understandable, although not entirely productive, but the intra-Party polarization is the most severe form of political suicide. Nothing good can be achieved for the people of the United States of America when the political leaders of an ideology are daily painted with a broad brush by the media representatives of that ideology. The Broad Brush Syndrome is illustrated on a daily basis by the falling in and out of political favor simply by a candidate or politician giving support for a point of view that has been defined to be treasonous by the keepers of the faith in talk radio or other media.<br />
The artifice of painting with a broad brush is a necessary function of it, as those afflicted by the Broad Brush Syndrome must engage in a corollary activity, i.e. piling on. Piling on has become the bread and butter of some political pundits, surpassing their primary function of informing intellects, and drifting headlong into shaping opinion. And in an effort to shape others opinions to their own twisted views they must paint with a broad brush and engage in artifice. Which takes the form of committing the sin of omission (ignoring anything good about their intended target), and the sin of commission (deliberately misrepresenting the actions or words of their intended target).<br />
The Broad Brush Syndrome is by far a greater destructive force than any of the issues painted by it. It eats at the very heart of self-government, civil political discourse, and even Liberty itself. As the great writer, producer, and creator Rod Serling once said, "In order for civilization to survive, man must remain civilized." The current state of politics, both on the Left and the Right, has become uncivilized to the detriment of our republic. And the Broad Brush Syndrome is an essential aspect of that downward spiral.<br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-36292195063199262592016-01-20T06:23:00.000-08:002016-01-20T06:23:47.866-08:00Establishment: The New Scarlet Letter Yesterday, nasally voiced hockey-mom, former governor of Alaska, and former vice presidential candidate, Sarah Palin, engaged in one of most irrelevant and inconsequential acts of political theater that exists in American politics, i.e. the endorsement. I say irrelevant because I am not sure there has ever been any empirical studies done that support the notion that an endorsement actually changes any political race in favor of the one being endorsed. Usually it is an exercise of the endorser trying to benefit from who they see as being likely to win the race. Evidentary of the former statement is the fact that there are few examples of high profile individuals endorsing candidates that are a long shot.<br />
Even in Mrs. Palin's bid to live in the vice president's mansion with her family (I can just see Sarah passing Todd food at the dinner table using pool cues ala The Beverly Hillbillys), she and her running mate John McCain were endorsed by independent Democrat Joe Liberman. I am not sure how many of those who voted for Senator Liberman actually threw their support behind McCain/Palin just because Joe said to. That is the problem with endorsements, anyone who respects the endorser enough to follow their advice were probably already going to support the endorsee.<br />
But I digress. The thing I wanted to talk about today is not so much the Palin endorsement of Donald Trump, but the language of the Alinsky conservatives used in her speech. Mrs. Palin used the term "establishment" several times, as has become the habit of those, who in the model of Saul Alinsky, aim to marginalize those they see as their political adversaries. I have to hand it to the Alinsky conservatives like Mark Levin, et al, who have used the tactics of the Left to convince their glassy-eyed followers that establishment is a bad word, and then apply that label to anyone they may disagree with on one issue or another. <br />
The application of the term "establishment" has been one of the most overused political ploys in recent years. And here is the funny (and very sad) thing: It is applied against members of the users' own political Party. In some people's twisted view, politics has become the only profession in the world where less experience is preferrable (actually in many persons' view no experience is preferrable). In the view of the politically radicalized, being established in a field of endeavor is a bad thing. And being a complete neophite with no track record or resume in that field is now the ideal. <br />
The term "establishment" has become the political version of the Scarlet Letter,a badge of shame applied by the hubris to anyone they want to destroy politically. I am not saying that there are not members of the established politicians in Washington that have done wrong by the American people, or even that they should not be voted out of office. But to label everyone in the established power structure as a traitor or treasonous, or as a Rino, is the height of ignorance in which only someone who is committed to generalizations as a political ethos can engage.<br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-65792877114475243922016-01-13T09:42:00.000-08:002016-01-13T09:42:17.881-08:00The Right-Left Tug-Of-War President Obama's final State of the Union speech last night was a surreal mixture of Reagnism and Alinskyism. The former illustrated by his strong language on the greatness of America, the latter by his continued insistence on his failed Leftist ideology as the best means of organizing and administering a society. Barack Obama stood before both Houses of congress, members of the Supreme Court, and the American public and waxed eloquently about the exceptional country in which we live. It is unfortunate that he has proven by seven years of his actions and rhetoric that he does not actually believe in that exceptionalism or even understand what defines it.<br />
Many conservatives are criticizing the president today because he downplayed the threat of Islamic terrorism, which he would not define as such. And as much as President Obama downplays the threat, some on the Right have engaged in just the opposite tact, i.e. exaggerating the threat for political gain. I do not agree with President Obama's characterization of ISIS as "a bunch of guys in the back of pick-up trucks" or "tortured souls devising plans in their basements and garages." I also do not agree with some on the Right characterizing the threat of radical Islamist terrorism as "World War III."<br />
I have a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach having to say this, but I agree with the president that this fight in which we currently find ourselves is not an existential threat to the greatness or existence of our country. However, I am chagrined over his apparent unwillingness to engage the enemy fully and wipe them out completely. But the fact that an American is more likely to die from slipping in the bathtub and hitting their head, than they are from the result of a terrorist attack, is not exactly endemic of the end-of-the-world-as-we-know-it scenario that some on the Right seem intent on convincing the public that it is.<br />
The far Left and the far Right can not be more different and at the same time more alike. For instance, the Left for many years pushed the figure of 40 million Americans living their lives without health insurance. The number in essence was true, however over half of those Americans were young and chose not to have coverage. Another substantial percentage were actually temporarily uninsured because they were between policies. And even more were the result of people who qualified for government healthcare through Medicaid, but for some reason never signed up.<br />
On the other side of the political spectrum are those on the Right who have proffered this notion of 92-94 million unemployed Americans. It is true that of working-aged Americans there is somewhere around 90 million that are not gainfully employed. However, millions of those are early retirees that have union or other pensions. Another chunk of that 90 million figure are Americans on disability. I am not in any way saying that the employment status in this country is just Jake, but neither is it an unmitigated disaster and the worse we have seen in our history. Historical perspective is sorely missing on both sides of the political argument.<br />
The exaggeration on both sides of the political circle have lead to many Americans resigning themselves from the political process altogether. This is extremely unfortunate. My goal, which I have been pilloried for from both sides, is to look at the un-sanitized facts to arrive at a conclusion based on the intellect, not the emotions. But politicians and political pundits both depend on energizing the emotions of the public to advance their own selfish agendas. The president's State of the Union speech, and much of the response to it from the Right, is illustrative of both sides in a tug-of-war trying to pull the American public over the line of reason to their perspective extreme narratives. <br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-73591395644300488032016-01-12T07:48:00.000-08:002016-01-12T07:48:27.503-08:00The Hypocrisy of Expecting More From Our Leaders The subject of my blog post today is one that I have written about prior. At the risk of engaging in redundancy, I will try to express some new thoughts and observations in an attempt to explain what I see as a dichotomy in our culture as it relates to our politics. I have noticed many people, especially among my fellows on the Right side of the political spectrum, criticizing the federal government for that in which they engage themselves. I do not want to be mistaken for someone who thinks there are no flaws in our current federal behemoth, only that it is expected, being populated from a culture that is seriously flawed.<br />
Primary to my discussion is the federal debt, which is now 110% of the Gross Domestic Product (basically the economic output of the nation). But a recent article in Forbes magazine makes the salient point that the average American has debt that is around 350% of their own personal GDP. That means that at least some of those criticizing the federal government for their over-spending (which no doubt is troubling), are themselves practicing the same profligate spending in their own lives. I have in recent years been flummoxed by those people who expect the federal government, with all its taxing authority and thousands of bureaucrats dependent on federal spending, to somehow be more fiscally conscious than they are themselves in their own lives.<br />
An additional area of criticism of the federal government by many of its citizens is the dishonesty with which our leaders conduct themselves. But these same individuals do not perceive the log in their own eye as they pick out what many times are splinters from the eyes of their leaders. Exemplary of this behavior is the relative ease with which many Americans will "fudge" personal information in order to get a loan or lower rates on insurance. Or the many parents who will help their children cheat on school projects by providing much more than just guidance, sometimes doing most of the work themselves. There are myriad examples of the daily dishonesty of people who criticize their leaders for dishonesty. From lying about a child's age to save money on movie tickets or restaurant meals, to stealing their employer's time by spending work time on social media when they are suppose to be performing the task for which they are being paid.<br />
I am not sure how we as a people expect our leaders to be far superior to the culture from which they spring. If the well is polluted, then the water one extracts from the well will be polluted as well. This is why term limits on members of congress is such a foolish pursuit. One will not obtain unpolluted water from a polluted well by dunking the bucket into it at a faster pace. And while the sentiment of "Change Washington" makes for pithy campaign slogans and bumper stickers, the center of our political system will not be changed until the polis around it is changed. We must change the culture before our politics will be changed. And those who are unwilling to change themselves and their communities, and expect national politicians to do so, are living in a hypocrisy which I think is more damaging to the long term health of this country than the ephemeral corruption of their leaders.<br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-55610946230714711522016-01-07T08:06:00.000-08:002016-01-07T08:06:11.979-08:00The Spread of One-Issue-Pathos I have been trying to put my finger on the source of my discomfort with members of my own political ideology on the conservative side. It is not only the divergence from Reaganism lead by talk radio hosts like Mark Levin. Nor is it the recent tendency for those on my side of the political circle to engender the tactic of marginalization enshrined in Saul Alinsky's <em>Rules for Radicals</em>, the bible of committed Leftists. And while playing fast and loose with facts, not only about political opponents but those on our side, has been a recent strategy of some who call themselves conservative, it is not the totality of solicitude I have felt lately. <br />
The real source of my frustration with members of my own political brethren is something I call one-issue-pathos. Many have become so focused on one issue that they have religified it to the point that it is the only factor present in their decision to support a candidate or not. Some of these issues include, but are not limited to, illegal immigration, presidential eligibility, the funding or defunding of Planned Parenthood, the Second Amendment (or any other one amendment they feel a candidate does not support), et al. <br />
It is not just the rabid support for one issue over all others that concerns and chagrins me, but the metrics those suffering from one-issue-pathos use to arrive at their sometimes twisted conclusions about one candidate or another. Exemplary of the previous statement is how some have characterized Marco Rubio as an "open borders" advocate because of his work with the "gang of 8." This legislative subset was joined by the Florida Senator during his first years in that body, and the group's goal was to advance illegal immigration reform consistent with the political realities of having to obtain support from a Democrat-controlled Senate and White House.<br />
Senator Rubio has for the record stated many times he is not for amnesty or open borders, but does support stronger border security and weeding out illegals. But his actual position does not mater to those suffering the affliction of one-issue-pathos. They just engage in two other tactics they learned from the Left, i.e. demonizing and marginalizing. By advancing a narrative that establishment members of the Party are Hitler-esque, they can then apply that label to anyone with whom they disagree on one issue or another. They further marginalize those who do not goose-step along with them by using the pejorative Rino (Republican in name only). <br />
As the destruction of Reagan conservatism is carried out by those who claim the mantle of "true conservatives," those on the Left rub their hands together with glee over the success of the Alinsky conservatives, a success which has alluded those on the Left with the same goal. To clarify conservatism for those who have forgotten what it is, or who may have never know what it is in the first place; conservatives do not speak ill of their fellow Party members (Ronald Reagan's 11th commandment). They also consider someone on their side with whom they agree 70% of the time (also a major part of the Reagan ethos). A conservative accepts political realities and knows that half a loaf is better than no loaf when negotiating with political adversaries (a practice on which Ronald Reagan hung his political hat). <br />
As we enter the meat of the 2016 presidential campaign, those who have become zealots for nihilism, would be well served to re-examine the conservatism they so boldly claim as their own. I am not sure what they are practicing, or to what good ends they think it will lead. But progress in politics is like progress on the football field; rarely does it come all at once, but is gotten a yard at a time, a first down at a time, and finally the ball is advanced over the goal line. There is no path to victory in one-issue-pathos. <br />
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Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-37420282849267228882016-01-05T06:51:00.001-08:002016-01-05T06:51:24.805-08:00What the President's Executive Gun Control Really Means So today is the day that President Obama announces his executive action proposing new controls on the sale and purchase of firearms in the United States. The stated goal by the president is to reduce the amount of violence that individuals perpetrate on our society with the improper use of firearms. I refuse to accept the president's and others' characterization of violent acts using the term <em>gun violence.</em> That term, like<em> social justice</em>, is an instrument of the Left whereby they modify a real concept, i.e. <em>justice</em> or <em>violence</em>, with a prefix to the word that destroys its meaning and allows laws to be enacted based on the mangled result.<br />
I am a strong proponent of the Second Amendment, so much so that I am not in favor of 90% of the controls we currently have. The words in the Second Amendment, <em>shall not be infringed</em>, have long ago been buried by a mountain of infringements. The Framers of our constitution did not mean for the Second Amendment to apply to government control of the military as some anti-Second Amendment people try an argue. If that were the case they would not have repeated themselves in Article 1, Section 8 where they gave congress the authority over the military. They further would not have put such a collective right in the Bill of Rights, which outlined individual rights for the most part.<br />
All the above being said, I think President Obama's executive order on gun control is more about style than substance. I do not see it as being, as those on the Left are hoping, a panacea to eliminating innocent deaths as a result of the illegal use of firearms, or as those on the Right see it, a prelude to gun confiscation by an out-of-control federal government. There are literally tens of thousands of gun regulations and laws on the books throughout this country, most of which are never enforced. The President's dog and pony show featuring new gun control laws will, in my humble opinion, be just one more.<br />
President Obama knows he has no chance whatsoever of confiscating Americans' guns. However, he can enact his executive order which makes him look as though he is doing something, without actually doing something. And the more over-reaction there is on the Right, like the Oregon idiocy, the more decent, law-abiding, constitutional-loving Americans he can convince he might have a point. I think it is wholly appropriate for those on the Right to outline the constitutional challenges to President Obama's gun control executive order, but it is just the latest drop in a bucket that has been filling for decades.<br />
The president's executive order is illustrative of the misguided strategy of some on the Right placing all the focus on Barack Obama. The focus in this case should be on the bucket of laws and regulations that already exist, not this new drop being added. It (the executive action) is not going to lead to a police state, or the confiscation of guns currently in the hands of private individuals. But how some on the Right react (or over-react) to it will be the determinant of whether or not it will achieve its goal of weakening the Second Amendment right for millions of Americans.Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-52505184940531821562016-01-02T12:56:00.000-08:002016-01-02T12:56:42.585-08:00Say Goodbye to NSA Metadata, Say Good Bye to Reason One of the still smoldering issues (at least for some of the more paranoid on the Right) in 2015 was the National Security Agency's metadata collection program. This was the program whereby computers culled through the phone numbers of billions of transactions a week to look for patterns that might be related to terrorist activity. A very useful tool that has little or no implications to the privacy of the average American. It is the same process used by the Post Office for the last 60 years to evaluate patterns in mail fraud by reading the outside of envelopes. The NSA's metadata program was the 21st century version of reading the outside of the envelope.<br />
Of course Ted Cruz, et al have effectively hamstringed the NSA from providing this protection to our country with legislation passed last year which gutted the program. There is no constitutional basis for opposition to the metadata program, and that is why Senator Cruz and his gang of privacy crusaders decided on a legislative route instead of a challenge to the program in the courts. If it truly was illegal based on the constitution, then why not challenge it in the courts?<br />
But I digress, retuning to the NSA's metadata program as an assault on the constitution, the Amendment most often sited by the privacy crusaders to support their position is the fourth. But the Fourth Amendment says that people have a right to be secure in their private papers, etc. Phone numbers are not private papers, or even owned as property by the individuals that use them. They are issued by the Federal Communications Commission to the service providers who in turn lease them to the customer. That is why one can not simply keep their phone number if they cancel service altogether, it gets reassigned to a new user.<br />
The entire argument of the privacy crusaders seems so surreal and farcical. People who post every excruciatingly boring detail of their lives and thoughts, including information on their bowel movements, on social media; along with pictures of all the guns they own and them doing childish and scatological things to pictures of the president, are worried about the NSA collecting the 10 digits of the phone number they are currently using to do those things?<br />
It seems my dear friends that we surely have entered the <em>age of stupidity</em>. What kind of reasonable person would trade their own safety, and the safety of their country, just to keep secret the ten digits in their phone number? Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-86145637951686651032016-01-01T06:06:00.000-08:002016-01-01T07:16:11.897-08:00Tamir Rice: A Case of Bad Parenting, Not Bad Policing<span lang=""> The death of Tamir Rice, the young man who was shot and killed by Cleveland police in 2014 while he was in the commission of a crime, has sparked outrage among the race-baiters and their mob of the easily riled. Tamir Rice was indeed only 12 years old, but was five foot seven and weighed 175 pounds, not exactly the innocent 8 year old of the pictures plastered by the media for public consumption. And the "toy" gun he pulled on police was in reality an Airsoft pistol with the orange tip removed, which made it look even more like the Colt 45 it was made to replicate. <br />
Tamir was in the process of threatening people with the gun in a high crime area of Cleveland, an area where there had been past shootings, including police officers who wound up on the wrong side of those shootings. He was threatening enough for those working at the Cadell Recreation Center that day to call police for fear that he might hurt someone or worse. It was these facts that drove the urgency in the officers' response, and that urgency was heightented to an even greater level when Tamir was told to put up his hands and instead reached in his waisteband to pull out the pistol.<br />
To be sure, the untimely death of Tamir Rice was very unfortunate. But while everyone is feeling horribly for his mother, I have to ask, "Is there sympathy available in the reasonable heart for one who is so complicit in a loved one's death?" You see, Tamir Rice's death was not a result of bad policing, but bad parenting. It was not the police who allowed the young man to be waving a gun at strangers in one of the highest crime areas of Cleveland. And it was not police who could care less of the whereabouts of this young man until something tragic happened to him. It was not police who abdicated the parental responsibilty to guide their child into constructuive pursuits instead of neglecting his descent onto the path of wannabe thug-hood.<br />
The Cleveland Police Department, the Ohio State Highway Patrol, and two out-of-state independent organizations all investigated the shooting, as well as it having recently been considered by a grand jury. All found from the evidence that the police did not act unreasonably or with any criminal intent. Of course for the mobs that now rule our cities, and are pandered to by local politicians, facts mean little when a black teen is shot by police. In their warped and mangled opinion, the police are always wrong and should have been willing to take a bullet, instead of the young deliquent who was threatening the citizenry with what looked like a real gun.<br />
So shame on Tamir Rice's mother for not making her son's life a cause before he threw it away. And shame on the professional agitators, who call themselves activists, for being active only after the death of a young man can be used to feather their public personas, instead of advocating for change in the black community that could prevent such deaths. Shame as well on public officials and politicians who allow our streets to be ruled by the mob because they do not have the courage to keep law and order. And finally, shame on all of us for ignoring the downward slide in our culture over the last 50 years from a society where young men wanted to be police officers, to one where they recklessly pull firearms on them and are held blameless for doing so.<br />
</span>Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-12160697327172221952015-12-29T07:14:00.000-08:002015-12-29T08:12:17.900-08:00Trump's Clinton Comments: The Canary In the Coal Mine I have gotten to the point recently where the chewed up red meat that dibbles from the mouth of Donald Trump goes in one ear and out the other. But his recent comments about Bill Clinton's infidelity as a reason to keep Hillary out of the White House is exemplary of what is wrong with some of my brethren on the Right. It is a meaningless statement, and a non-starter as a political strategy for winning the White House next November.<br />
Primarily I could care less about Bill Clinton's infidelity to his wife, that is between him and her, and has no place in the political debate to choose our next president. I fail to see how the former president's sexual peccadillos has any bearing on whether the voters should consider his wife for president. There are many more substantive reasons not to consider Hillary Clinton for the highest office of the land. For Mr. Trump, or anyone else for that matter, to take the focus off the real issues and place it on the salacious but politically irrelevant, is a losing strategy.<br />
Germane to my argument is the fact that Bill Clinton is not running for the office of President of the United States. So any criticism of him is misplaced and gratuitous to any meaningful debate about the upcoming election. Especially when that discussion is framed by the inarticulate ranting's of a silver-spoon-in-the-mouth billionaire who wants to bully his way to the presidency. Those who follow this buffoonery of attacking a former president as a means to argue against the election of his wife, are traveling a path only inhabited by fools and charlatans.<br />
Additionally, Bill Clinton, like it or not, is still very much liked by a large swath of the American public. A large enough swath that anyone hoping to win the presidency would be wise to steer clear of harsh criticism of the former Commander in Chief. But then Donald Trump's entire campaign has been based on avoiding the real issues as he weaves his political theater into the likeness of a mindless reality TV show. This may quicken the pulse and glaze the eyes of his emotionally charged devotees, but this slim minority of the voting public is not enough to deliver him the presidency.<br />
The recent comments by Mr. Trump, and the Pavlovian response to it by his votaries, is the canary in the coal mine of a Republican loss in 2016. If more people on our side do not wise up and end their destructive love affair with Mr. Trump, and choose a more substantive candidate to support, we are sure to wake up the morning after with Hillary in the White House. <br />
Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30415904269989295.post-13383645810894059872015-12-28T06:44:00.001-08:002015-12-28T12:01:07.651-08:00Are Things As Bad As They Say? I am going to state right from the beginning of this post that I disagree with everything President Obama has done and the reckless way in which he has appropriated Liberty in this country in order to advance his Leftist agenda. That being said, I am sure there are those who will read what follows and call me an Obama supporter, a Rino, a tool of the "establishment", etc. But as the man said, "Facts are stubborn things." Much of the economic mayhem that has become part of the Radical Right's rhetoric is misleading at best, and un-conservative at worse. As I have stated prior on this page, conservatism is not only about what one believes, but the truthfulness in which those beliefs are presented.<br />
If one listens to talk radio exclusively for any length of time, one would surmise that the country is in the depths of a depression unseen since the 1930s. The fact is that the economy has recovered at its slowest pace since the Great Recession of 2008-2009, but it has recovered. This is not the result of any Obama policy, but in spite of them. That is the great thing about American business and capitalism, it will always find a way to survive and thrive. Just look at the number of companies that are still around today that were founded during the Great Depression of the 1930s.<br />
In my own life I have seen that the unemployment rate, while maybe not as good as the Obama administration has reported it is, is certainly not as bad as some on the radical Right try to convince people it is. I lost my job of 11 years last November, and even though I live in northeast Ohio where the unemployment rate is higher than much of the country, I was able to find five different jobs and have settled on one I feel is best. A luxury that those unemployed in the 1930s only dreamed of having. <br />
I have also witnessed dozens of help wanted signs in just a ten to fifteen mile radius of my house. Evidence, however anecdotal, that still shows an improving economy. Again, in spite of President Obama, not because of him. Some of the jobs available are good paying careers. I recently had a conversation with the manager of my local Panera's and she said they are in need of managers for all the new locations they are set to open. They can not find enough people interested in rising from associate to assistant manager to manager and are now placing people directly into the management program.<br />
Now as for the 93 million people unemployed in this country that those on the radical Right are want to repeat as proof of a depressed economy. Almost 11 million of that number are disabled Americans, another 10 million are working aged people that have retired on a union or other pension. So while there are still far too many individuals living on tax payer money, we are no where near the level of financial collapse as Greece, to which the mavens on the radical Right like to compare us. The misery index, which is arrived at by adding the unemployment rate and the inflation rate, is around 8%. A far cry from the almost 23% it was when Ronald Reagan was elected president.<br />
As I have said some reading this will assume I am supporting Obama simply for stating the truth. And therein lies the problem with the new conservative movement, what I call the Alinsky conservatives. The truth in their hands is as malleable as it is in the hands of the Left. They have fallen under the spell of<em> the ends justify the means</em>, which is cause for great concern among Reagan conservatives like myself.Damon Kochhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06597799409282854715noreply@blogger.com0